Okay here goes. How do I get closer to someone who doesn't talk? I have my roommate that I've known for years but I really have no idea why were friends and whenever I bring it up he doesn't know either. We barely talk and have the same interests. I hear things through the grapevine that he's going through shit and that he wants to hang out with me more but he would never EVER tell me himself. When a mutual friend tells me this stuff he gets upset. She's only trying to help me help him. I don't know what to do at this point. And for the mutha fuckas, no I don't want to fuck him. I just want to be closer friends.
>>17959573
Drink with him, he'll start talking
>>17960542
He doesn't drink that much anything else?
If he wants to hang out with you then just keep asking him to hang out until eventually he says yes. If he's not into drinking invite him to other shit, like getting lunch or even going to the grocery store or something.
Maybe he's secretly in love with you and is too scared to show it so that's why he's bitching about it to your friend
>>17960743
How serious was that last part anon?
>>17961053
Bump
>>17961012
You tell me
>>17961099
The idea of my friend secretly being in love with me is.. hell I can't even fathom it..
>>17961105
I'd call it an unlikely, but plausible explanation. Also because he's acting like a 7th grade girl
>>17961115
All I want is to be closer to him and it not be gay.
>>17961320
sorry brah you gay now