> starts talking to a girl > start going out with the said

>never make it clear that you're interested in being more than friends
>don't even kiss her
>she thinks you're just friends
>somehow she's the one at fault

sounds like you never made a move dude, and she didn't know that you were actually interested.

never said she's at fault or something, i legit don't want to be her friend. The fact that we held hands and me flirting with her pretty explicitly seemed enough to show my interest. But that's not the point..

From what I understood. you were the one who cut contact, and you can't really blame her for not wanting to talk to someone who didn't want to be friends, it just gets awkward.

I totally understand you feeling used by her asking you for help, though. I think you should try to be professional and offer as much help as you would a normal acquaintance, if you feel you can handle it. If you don't want to help her or think you'd feel too stressed about it, just tell her you don't feel comfortable studying with her or lie and tell her you're busy.

But please, don't think you might get something more out of this. She's made it abundantly clear that she's not interested in you romantically. She might invite you to parties, or help if with your own studies if she can, and generally be friendly, but you won't be getting that kiss if she doesn't want it.

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Just tell her you've got too much going on right now and can't. Lel

You should decide for yourself, if you don't want to spend too much time helping someone you think is using you, that's perfectly okay. You're both individuals and you can make the decision to help her, regardless of her motives, or not to, it's entirely up to you.