I can feel myself sinking into a deep, deep depression. It's been a month since this guy I thought I was getting serious with ostebsibly ghosted me for someone else and I'm feeling more sad and hopeless than ever. I'm tempted to call him to beg him to properly say goodbye to me so I can get some closure I can't seem to find on my own, but I feel like that's the wrong move.
How do I stop myself from sinking?
>>17956629
>I'm tempted to call him to beg him to properly say goodbye to me so I can get some closure I can't seem to find on my own, but I feel like that's the wrong move.
Asking the guy who couldn't respect you enough to give you the time of day for anything isn't the right move OP. Don't waste your time on anyone who makes you feel like less than what you are.
Take care of yourself, exercise, sleep and eat right. Running and getting enough sleep, even though it's simple, completely changed the state of my mental health.
You're just gonna have to deal with it.
I know your a femanon, but you have to deal with these kinds of things like an anon, like a man. Do things to take your mind off of the absence of intimacy, I've done it for nearly 2 years now, but I'm male so I am expected not to complain or care about it, otherwise I'd be a pussy!
>>17956672
>Asking the guy who couldn't respect you enough to give you the time of day for anything isn't the right move OP. Don't waste your time on anyone who makes you feel like less than what you are.
I get what you're saying and it's probably sound advice, but I guess I just can't get myself out of his head. Which is to say that I've constructed a sort of imagined scenario in my mind in which he felt bad about having chosen someone else over me and he thought shutting me out entirely would spare my feelings more than the truth would. Which would be incorrect, but would sort of be understandable. I guess I'm just having a hard time making him out to be a bad person in my mind because he always seemed like such a stand-up guy in every way.
I've been trying to get into running but so far it's just been making me feel like shit.
>>17956690
>I know your a femanon
Where did I say that
>>17956697
>I've been trying to get into running but so far it's just been making me feel like shit.
Same boat, OP. I'm told you have to keep at it and eventually it feels better but I've been at it 5x a week for two months and so far: nothing
>>17956904
Well that's encouraging. I've been at it less than a week.
bump? :(