I'm a 5/10 and look like the average /r9k/ poster. I've tried hitting on girls my league but they all rejected me.
Somehow I sometimes get attention from 9/10s . At first I tought they're just joking with me but this keeps happening. They're even the ones hitting on me but everytime I sperged out and missed my chances.
Lately some girl I know from uni (only said hi to her while walking to class nothing more) sat next to me in course a week ago. She introduced herself and we talked for 30 min before class started.
What should I do? Is she being friendly? I'm fat and autistic as shit why are these girls talking to me?
pic related, it's what uni girl looks like
Most girls want to start with a casual, friendly type of encounter before even considering "dating". Just chill, talk to her, be yourself. If it doesn't spark, don't cling and move on.
>>17953031
Are they hitting on you or just being nice?
>>17953031
Similar experience here, can't seem to accomplish shit with 5/10's but last semester my 8/10 friend got me blackout drunk, we fucked, and now we're dating. Just enjoy the ride and don't question it too much.
>>17953043
what does "spark" mean? how do I make it spark?
>>17953077
some were. ex: 10/10 sits near me in class and asks if we can date. I tought she was fucking with me so I said no and she left like "wtf?". another on the corridor put her arm around me and started complimenting me. I just froze then went to class without saying anything.
can't tell with this one tought. she was genuinly asking questions trying to get to know me asking me and I made her laught a couple of times but it seemed just casual conversation. she left after class without saying anyting
>>17953087
how did you become friends?
>>17953110
We both were involved in a club at my uni that would go to high schools to tutor kids in math and science. Both quit a two years ago but had been crushing on one another back then, she invited me to a get together she was having this year, and it just happened.