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Why people in relationships can't handle jokes and teasing with past sex partners? Had a wonderful time a few years ago with a lady friend and sometimes I joke about it (in non-offensive manner) but that makes her not contacting me for a long time after it, although she knows that I'm not hitting on her or anything like that, and I don't plan to destroy her current relationship. If she reacted, it would count as cheating in her mindset?
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>>17952565
You're putting her in an uncomfortable position.
While it isn't cheating, talking about the sex you had with a past sex partner, even if just in a joking manner, is definitely inappropriate and might make her partner feel bad.
Stop doing it.
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>sometimes I joke about it (in non-offensive manner)
>she gets obviously offended despite your claim
Really makes you think
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Because you're flirting with her and she doesn't appreciate it
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>>17952565
I do.
But i'm pretty confident in my sexual ability so it's fine.
Before I was confident I wouldn't have, most people are afraid to remind them of what may be better sex.
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Because she doesn't want to open a can of worms even if your first remark seems innocent. Also because her partner has not lived through her experiences and it is not surprising if he won't take her word for it that you don't want to bang her still.
Hell explicitly acknowledging one on one that you experienced something intense/emotionally charged together is already a pretty intimate thing by itself.
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>>17952565
So, you keep reminding her that you had a relationship with her? Say it's a joke all you want. It just looks like you are clinging to the past.
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