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I have an odd rationality of confidence, I don't have a problem speaking in front of crowds, but I have a problem drawing close to people. For instance I don't kiss any family members and havn't elementary school, anytime someone can tell I'm depressed I imedeatly reject opening up. I will be 19 soon and I'm still a virgin (short meaningless relationships is all I've had), again I don't have the confidence. The first time I kissed a girl was in 8th grade, because she basically asked me out. I'm like a solid 7/10, lean, with some muscle, average height. I don't feel that virginity is holding me back but each day passes and I don't want to be casted for the revamped "40 year old virgin". What do?
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Go to a psychologist, I'm ADHD (which is not the same problem) but I went to a psychologist. It's been 6 months now and I can comfortable control my emotions and manage my time.
I very strongly recommend you go see a psychologist, if you deem your confidence issue too big to handle it yourself.
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>>17952391
I'm almost 20 and i'm in the same position as you.
Except the closest i've gotten asked out 3 times and had the girl change her mind a few days before the date.
Besides that i've never really spoken to any girls. I've never even kissed a girl.
Maybe it'll get better.
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>>17952396
I'm a college student how affordable are these services, I think they offer counselling but again. But again the same problems I face are the sane ones that make it hard to get help, because I fear opening up. Which is why I resort to 4chan
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Hope it works out for you too
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>>17952391
>no problame speaking in fron of crowds
>autist when speaking to single person
anon, r u me?
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