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Is there some sort of formula for determining how long it's

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Is there some sort of formula for determining how long it's acceptable to be hung up over someone you used to date? I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me for still being low-key devastated over getting dumped a month ago by the last guy I went out with for the preceding month and a half.

Even when I take into account some of the mitigating circumstances I'm starting to feel like I may need professional help.
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>>17947783
>It's only been a month ago

You're fine, it was recent enough to be understandable.
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>>17947812
When will the desire to keep texting him fade? :(
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>>17947783
It depends on how frequent/infrequent your attachments are

I dated a girl for a month and a bit and I was hung up over her dumping me for a lot longer because it's rare for me to find someone I can connect with

What I'm getting at is that there is no normal
So long as you grow and learn, you're ok
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>>17948020
Cool, thanks. This guy was really the first I ever developed feelings for, and he gave me every indication he reciprocated them right up until he ghosted.

It's just that I went to such a dark place in the wake of it and that darkness has barely let up between then and now that it's frightened me a bit that I'll never really be cut out for a real relationship. I mean, if a guy could do that to me after only having dated for a month and some change, who knows what I'll do if the next guy hurts me after six? Or after a few years?
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>>17948067
I think I'm a bit older than you.

The thing I've learned is that it's always worth the risk.
It hasn't ever really succeeded for me but I keep trying
Because when it works. When you really have that connection. It makes it all worth while.
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I'm at about 2.5 years for someone I never really dated but was in love with for a long time.
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