>currently in university >continous fights at home, first

100% relatable to my situation, bumping for answers.

>>17943554
Op here, currently looking for a job atm, I really wouldn't want to drop out of college, but I can't keep it up like this

>>17943567
I'm studying two embarrasingly pointless subjects at college. My dad is pressuring me to pursue a traineeship, but I really just want a small peaceful existence wherein I can afford a small living with my PC for WoW and thats all.

What are you studying at uni?

>>17943590
Studying kind of a pointless subject myself, globalization shit related... The only thing I want is to get out of this place, I don't really want a small earning, I've got expectations and also to settle down with a family later on

>>17943612
Well you definitely need some form of earning to sustain yourself. But I know how it feels to want to get away ASAP, my dads gf is a constant cunt to me and her behaviour is met with indifference by my dad.

I advise you wait a while and get a financial foothold before you have a family. My parents had me at college age and have been scrambling for consistency and certainty ever since.

>>17943635
Of course, I would never dream of settling down any time to soon anyway, I want to think about myself first, then once I'm stable and want to have a family take on action but only after i finished taking care of myself. I didn't get to do a lot of things because of fear before but things need to change

>>17943520
Take it from me man, you need to get your degree (unless it's a worthless degree even then degree > no degree.) Unless you plan on getting into a trade you'll find shit jobs in customer service or shit back breaking warehouse jobs. Yea you might strike it lucky but you can't rely on that.

After working in a call center making 15hr (which soon you'll realize is shit money) for 2 years seeing my career path was a sobering thought. So now I'm back in school with an internship that pays me more and makes me more marketable when I graduate here in the summer.

My advice spend as much time at university and at your job if you have one and just get it done. You'll thank yourself later.

>>17943520
>urge to drop out

dumb dumb dumb

stay in college get good grades graduate get good job make boo koo $$ then tell parents to fuck off

if your parents are paying for college who the fuck cares how they act ?

really you will have to deal with crappy unpleasant people your entire life and a really good approach is to use your crappy family as training ground for this future crap

the problem (for me anyway) is after getting real good at dealing with crappy people you now have zero idea how to interact with normal pleasant people

yada yada yada

good luck

do internet search for phrases like

how to cope with difficult people
how to deal with unpleasant coworkers

zillions of websites for this stuff all psycho babble blather but it usually works