Hey /adv/, 18 year old in college here. I'm still technically

how does she force you to borrow money?

>>17943286
She basically forces me to loan her $100 or more so she can pay bills because she literally can't pay her bills with a salary of $50,000 a year somehow. I assume if I don't borrow her the cash she'll kick me out as she often threatens to do, even though I'm still in high school.

>>17943295
oh she forces you to LEND her money

>>17943300
Yeah, sorry Minnesotan accent.

Any advice though? Feels like military is my only real option now as if she doesn't fill out the FAFSA I'm fucked loan and scholarship wise.

>>17943280
Tell her to suck your dick or get off your back

>>17943308
This, stand up to her. Tell her you'll fucking leave and you don't need this shit.

Honestly she's probably just terrified that you're leaving and she is trying to keep you down because she doesn't want her baby to leave.

If you want to do it softly then speak with her about this. Tell her she needs to let you go and she's not doing the right thing for you as a mom by trying to keep you home forever.

>>17943300
Why can't dumbfuck midwesterners get this shit right? I heard this shit so many times during the two years I lived in Wisconsin.

Get your thumbs out of your asses, idiots.

>>17943323
It's almost the opposite. She's essentially trying to do the opposite and completely oppose me going to college, but encourage me to go into the army.

It's fucking creepy because she fetishizes soldiers, and I refuse to let her do that to me.

She thinks it's impossible to pay for school with loans because she failed out twice while having two kids to support.

The Army is fine, but I won't be forced into it, because that's fucking bullshit.

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>>17943280
How do you get money without a job?

>>17943280
Personally, I think it's a good idea to have at least a part time job throughout college, that way there isn't a huge gap in your resume, and when you start applying for jobs you can have job experience.

Just get a fun social job like bartending for some extra cash, you won't regret it.

As far as your mom goes, stop accepting money from her, she's going to use that as a crutch in any argument you ever have about money. That's how women tend to be.

Apply for FAFSA on your own, or move out and claim yourself as independent. Just do everything on your own.

Trust me, they want to lend you money. They will find a way to lend you money for school.

>>17943300
AHHH this had me confused as well.

This problem is larger than I thought then, you really have to just get out of there or stand your ground man