If you fuck up with a girl you've been seeing what's

>>17941582

the problem here is that you're acting like girls are all robots running the same program and that every single slight against them is measured exactly the same.

whats the best thing to do? something personal. something that shows you are not only sorry but you know her so well that she would be remiss to give up on you.

we dont know what you did to fuck up. so we definitely can't tell you what to do to fix it.

>Expensive material object

>apologize and try to fix it with words and actions

Up to u famalamadingdong

>>17941582

you could try apologizing of course

but this may only work if you "sort of" fucked up, if you really fucked up then just forget her, learn your lesson & don't repeat it

becuz really, why would you want to date a gal that puts up with your own fucked up behavior ?

c'mon you want a gal who makes you want to improve your dumb butt self

yes ?

>>17941588
>>17941604
I almost cheated on her with her friend and now she won't talk to me, is this fixable?

and I do want to improve myself that's why im trying to fix this shit, at least ill learn a lesson by trying to fix it and sowing myself I did wrong
>>17941603
can I do both?

>>17941625

>is this fixable

it can be, but again women (and more importantly, people) are not computer programs. pressing the right buttons wont get you the desired results.

we cant say 'yes she will forgive you if you do this right, and if not shes awful'.

shes entitled to not want to date you. we dont have any context outside of 'almost cheated on her with a friend'.

was this months of planning before your girlfriend caught you? or did you have a drunken night and stopped yourself after a kiss then came clean to your gf?

regardless of the answer we can't guarantee or even give an estimate. we can say what we'd do in that situation if you did the right stuff, btu there is no guarantee.

make your own plan on how to fix this and rol lthe die.

>>17941625
>almost cheated

i'd say nope

almost doesn't matter in her mind you made the attempt & only regret it because you got caught

idk why guys cannot keep their hands to themselves and their dicks in their pants - but that's the way it is, you need to learn to mentalize this stuff in your brain ONLY

some gals care about this 100% some don't, they all care about something tho

>>17941647

women cheat too. maybe they need to keep their vaginas in their pants.

>>17941647
KEEP QUIET

>>17941625
Of course this girl could be different but I personally wouldn't be able to get over that, sorry.