I'm a 20 y/o guy and have been talking to this 17 y/o girl that I work with for a few weeks now. When we started talking I that their was a connection there because we had similarly lonely and dysfunctional childhoods. But after getting to know her more I realized that we don't have much else in commo and that she's too immature for my liking. But I made the mistake of making out with her today, before I really got a grasp of how wrong the situation is. I want to break it off with her without hurting her feelings, but I very inexperienced when it comes to dating in general.
What should I do, /adv?
How is it wrong?
Have to keep going now make her not like you but peacefully
>>17941370
Say this and walk back to your business "hey (name) things got a little weird last time, hope we are still cool" do not text her this it only works in person. Does the perfect job of letting you follow up the next time she brings it up, which will be after you thought more.
>>17941384
I suppose the post was a like vague. The short version is I haven't been in a relationship in a long time, so what I thought was a genuine attraction was really just an infatuation with the idea that someone is attracted to me
>>17941392
The evening didn't end badly though. I just realized I'm not attracted to her and I just want to let her down as gently as possible.
>>17941411
Here's a 10/10 tip. The best way to get any woman to lose interest is to devalue yourself and telegraph that you are a low status male. (even if you're not) Do this for a short while and she'll automatically lose interest.
tl;dr throw shit at yourself for a short span of time nonstop and she'll back off
only scenario where this doesn't work is when you end up with a "i will save him type".
>>17941370
Pull her aside and explain it as you just said it. Be polite but firm. There isn't a secret formula or code show her respect by being honest. If she doesn't take it well then that's on her.