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My girlfriend and I recently had a talk about the possibility

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My girlfriend and I recently had a talk about the possibility of threesomes, my idea, and even though i brought it up i have mixed feelings about the whole thing

I was suggesting an mff threesome and she asked me if i would be ok with a mmf threesome, and that if the answer was no then i could understand why she was not comfortable with a mff.
I thought about it and I realized that she made a pretty good point so i dropped it without much of a fuss. But a few days later she came to me and had an idea of a girl we could have a threesome with, and she said she changed her mind about it. I told her I didnt want to anymore because i would feel bad doing it knowing that i would not allow it to happen if she had suggested another boy. She said she wasnt into the idea of having sex with two men at all, and that she only said it earlier because she was nervous.
Frankly im not sure if i should buy this or not. Here are my worries
I say yes and we have a great time and then she gets jealous, so we have a threesome with another boy, and then i get jealous.
I say yes and we have a great time and it turns out shes been bisexual this whole time.
I say yes and i totally blow it because im so torn on the idea now.
Of course she could genuinley not be interested in never having two guys, but at least to me that seems to good to be true. I love my girlfriend, and i think shes great, i really do but i just cant get over that question she asked and how i'll feel if i put myself in a position where I feel like i owe her something, even if that may not be how she feels.

What do i do? Am i overthinking this?
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As long as you're sure she said that just for being on the defensivec go for it. I've been in your shoes and had it. Took a few tries but we finally had our dream ffm threesome and I think this was the most romantic night I ever had.
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>>17934989
she never tried for a mmf?
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>>17934994
>>17934994
On our very first talk she said that. I replied something along the following lines:

"Picture two naked female bodies, hairless, pink hard nipples, shaved pussy with swollen clit, both making out. Now picture two guys making out"

Obviously my view was biased on my favor, but she got it. Threesomes will only be really fun imo if the same sex partners are bi. Otherwise it's more like 2x1. This was enough to convince her that ffm>mmf, since I'm not bi, she's turned off by gay males, and she had previously kissed girls and curious about fucking them.

Since she even sought the girl, I'd say she's at the very least bi curious. Let her have the lead in the arrangements to avoid jealousy and make her hold her word after that if she starts mentioning mmf.
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>>17934972
Don't do it she's testing you!
She will regret it especially because she won't be able to fuck another guy.
I'm a bisexual woman and would enjoy a mff with my bf but only if we got to do a mmf in the future.
Also never have a threesome with a friend it'll fuck your relationship up. Always do it with an escort
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I say do it, OP, just remember that if she turns out to be bisexual there's nothing wrong with that as long as she isn't cheating with a man or a woman.

If she does, however, ask you for a mmf threesome, it's the redest of flags, bail out inmediatly.
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>>17935136
This.

If she "changed" her mind from onlynwanting a mmf threesome to wanting a mff threesome, then whats stoppinf her to change he mind again and wanting an mmf threesome? Its just that now she has the mff threesome hanging over your head and will call you out. Assuming she isnt being manipulative as fuck and cuck you then its best to just stay away from threesomes
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>>17935170
The thing is: what's stopping her of changing her mind even if they don't do that?

If she wants a mmf, she'll want it regardless of doing a ffm or not. That's a red flag either way. However, if OP trusts this girl, he should trust her word that she only said that to be on the defensive. My gf for instance never brought up the idea of a mmf again.
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>>17934972
How about you put this question on hold for half a year so that she can think it over.
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>>17936629
That's valuable advice op.

Although I said I've been in your shoes ( >>17934989), I talked it through with my gf for six years before we even talked to a girl. So you don't have to hurry. Take your time, see what her real intentions are, and make a move only when you feel safe about it.
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>>17934972
you dumb fuck. you opened this pandoras box and now have to deal with the consequences. After you guys do the ffm threesome she will come to you for the reciprocal mmf even though she says no now and you will be backed into a corner and cannot refuse.

I get threesomes and been a participant but none in which I was emotionally involved with either. Just don't understand why you fools don't think this shit all the way through. Want to do all this shit fine but do it while single.
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