Alright guys i need some serious help , i'm almost getting

So youre asking if someone can help you be comfortable being second fiddle. Or third or forth for that matter.

No. You don't deserve this, OP.

>>17934134
Be a man, put your foot down, and tell her she can pick one or the other. She can be with you, or she can keep "meeting other people" and look for someone else. She can't have both at the same time.

>>17934134
So she wants you to be a side piece. I mean if you have any sense of self worth you should tell her to fuck off.

>>17934134
please dont enable this. girls like this have mental issues. I would turn around and run but you want to keep her. so here

1- tell her to get stuffed.
2- dont message her
3- she will come back running
4- when she does. tell her its you or the highway
5 proffit? not really. you will mostly likely go on to become aids frodo or she will break your hurt.


RUUUUN

if she really loved you, she wouldn't be considering an open relationship! not to mention this "I will think more about it" crap. stop wasting your time with people that think of you as second plan!

>>17934134
She wants you to be a fill in while she attempts to find someone better. I'm currently a side piece like she wants you to be, and I'll give you some pointers: if you have ANY actual romantic feelings for her move on. It'll kill you if you continue and she moves on to another dude. If you're like me and put her into a FWB situation it's alright because if she's attracted to you she'll still hang around. In my situation we're good friends now and though we both know we're using each other we've also got our friendship to fall back on if either of us starts going out with someone else. Don't make her your only hookup if you do this. You can either do that or take the advice of:
>>17934158
And give her an ultimatum. If she refuses, move on.