How do I get my girl to give head? I don't care how selfish

Wash your dick

I've also heard before that I should just talk to her about it but anything too personal or serious will make her shut down and she just says she doesn't know. I can't even talk to her about life because she just gets quiet. I'm her man and I've put her on a pedestal but I just can't get her to open up and be comfortable with me and I don't think I can do this much longer

>>17933961
Try to 69

>>17933961
If you are with a woman who refuses a sexual act that she has happily done for a man in the past, she does not love you and you need to leave her. Just a personal principle about women I have that has worked out well.

If she craved you sexually she would suck you dry. I am very sorry, but do you go down on her? It could be that she wishes you would do the same and is holding out in bitterness. In my experience though straight women fucking love sucking on cock, and if they love yours they will do so gladly.

>>17933961
She doesn't love you, or lust for you. You're a safe option, but not one that makes her horny, or someone she has a desire to satisfy. I'm sorry OP, but I'll assume that you've already spoken to about this (if you haven't, wtf are you doing here anyway), so really your only choice is to break up. And really, why have you been in a relationship with a girl for a year that doesn't even touch your dick? What the fuck, man?

>>17934027
this op
i was in the same situation with a divorced gf. get out while you still can

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Well then... Fuck my life. Thank you guys for opening my eyes. This is a lot to process but you guys are never wrong. I don't even know what to do with myself now, fuck. I feel so inadequate and inferior now.

>>17933961
>my girl

this is why. you act like you own her

>>17933961
Tell her outright you're not sure if she's actually interested in you and you want to know what she's feeling and take the relationship to an intimate level. Have personal but meaningful question to ask as backup if she decides to open up. If not, move on soon when you can find a new hole to fuck. Sounds like that's all you're really interested in anyway.

>>17933961
>only touched my dick when drunk

you're just raping her fampai

>>17934118
Congrats on having your eyes opened, OP. Best of luck dealing with it going forward

>>17934118
It's not only on you bro. Some people are broken and have to fix themselves. This seems to be the case.

Don't feel guilt, as long as you've did everything within reach, there isn't anything else you could do

>>17934027
this. get her drunk again in the meantime

>>17934145
this too. just take the relationship how you feel is the right way for you to be happy

>>17933961
How old are you two?
That makes a big difference.
How often do you see each other?

>>17933961
How long ago was the divorce?

>>17933961
>never come on to me sexually or non sexually
>never came on to me
>my girl
>my girl never

Nigger, what?
How is she yours?

>>17933961
No she is the selfish one. Love is when you prioritize someone else's safety and satisfaction above your own. She is clearly priority #1 in her life. Explain that to her so she has one last chance and then leave.

>>17933961
Do you go down on her? If you don't, she could feel you don't deserve it.

It does seem like she's kind of fucked emotionally, and as female sexuality is linked so closely with mentality, it could be the cause.

Is she a giving person in general, or do you do all the work in the relationship?

Do you cuddle and do other stuff?

Is she just dead weight?

If the answer is yes, you should probably consider leaving.

>>17934555
I'm a girl who totally loves giving my boyfriend head - but I do have an issue. I can't swallow. Won't, I guess. In my mind, I want to, but it just seems gross and ugh. No, I hadn't done this for anyone else either, so it's not him. (Usually, we just transition to sex after I give him head.)

What could this mean for me mentally? How can I get over it?

>>17934779
You don't HAVE to. If the other person can't accept it, that's their problem. And a stupid one, at that.

As for training, you have to practice deepthroat so he can unload beyond your tastebuds if that's the issue. Other than that, if he's that into porn which is what it seems... do other things with it. Spit it on your chest, not a cup. Or let it run out of your mouth while he keeps pumping.

It's not that big a deal.