What is the best way to date in college? I've only had

>>17933952
Go to the local churches and socialize until you find a girl. Only He can bring you true happiness.

>>17933952
You're equating sex with morality and that's your first mistake. Just because you believe sex is sacred does not mean that's the morally correct definition. Sex is an act the lowest beast does in order to propagate its species. Sex as an act is looked at as more of a casual transaction than it ever has been so you're going to want to find either a girl who was home-schooled or a religious loony.

>you're going to want to find either a girl who was home-schooled or a religious loony.
>>17933967
See what I mean

>>17933973
I'm not saying it's "sacred" I believe it shouldn't be as casual as many people think it is. The girl I was with had sex with four other people before me. While I still didn't enjoy knowing that, I accepted it because they were all boyfriends just as I was. I never grew up religious and my father slept around plenty after my parents were divorced. I can't be the only normal person who thinks like that.

>>17933973
You've done a good job rationalizing your sluttiness, but the world will still treat you like a slut

>>17933952
I just made friends with people on my social level. Friends of friends, and eventually I met my current gf of 3 years. She had a sacred sex kind of view and she isn't a religious loon, we lost our virginites to each other. Just make friends and don't be desperate, just be you.

>>17934016
I'm a guy and I've only been with five women including my wife. Just speaking from a purely objective position here.

>>17933973
>tfw raised religious and home schooled
I've only had sex with one guy at age 23, my bf, and it honestly sucks knowing he's had threesomes, orgies, and a fuck ton of hookups. We're probably going to marry and I regret saving myself to find out that the rest of the world doesn't give a shit. My advice I guess is get over it and catch up with the rest of society while you can.

You're not wrong for being against hookups, OP. Hookup culture is overrated. I dived into it after a bad breakup, hooked up with 12 girls over the span of three months.

The anxiety of STDs and the emotional/physical toll is draining. I'm tired of hookups and now I'm just focusing on improving myself and focusing on my career.

You just gotta meet new people, OP. Sometimes you'll meet girls at random places like when you're at the grocery store, or at a party. Don't chase girls, just have fun and focus on improving yourself. When you sense a girl is attracted to you, pursue that.

Sometimes your friends will know single girls and introduce you. Don't let loneliness get the best of you and just keep moving forward.

Avoid dating apps, waste of time unless you just want hookups/short term girlfriends.

>>17933952
ignore this fag >>17933973. You can socialize in groups that value morality and substance in relationships.. Church groups are the obvious choice. People who are heavily involved in academic groups are less focused on hookups and more on making friends, you can find decent women there as well. In your classes there are assuredly decent women as well. Being a commuter is some indication they aren't heavily involved in the degeneracy that permeates on campuses. Women that don't seem to have too many friends in class are a good chance as well. Especially ones that show up regularly and pay attention. Try to sit next to them and group with them on projects. It's easy because you'll already have something in common taking that class.

>>17934030
Trust me, the vast majority of guys very much do care if you've had a crazy sexual past, like an orgy with blacks. You very well could be lamenting your boyfriend not accepting your past and leaving you for a virgin. Be thankful you'll never have to worry about that.

>>17934030
Don't regret your actions. I mean you clearly don't hold your eventual husband to the same standard you hold yourself, so that says something in itself, but people actually do care. Besides you haven't missed out on anything. I'd bet you'd almost instantly regret a night of whoring yourself out. It's a really short term and overrated satisfaction that pales in comparison to your self esteem.

>>17934048
True.. but now I'm the one who has to picture him railing all these dozens of chicks and he doesn't have to worry about me at all.. feels unfair at times.

>>17934043
>Sometimes your friends will know single girls and introduce you.
Unfortunately my only close friends are even more antisocial as I am and don't have any desire to change that.
>>17934047
I'm in engineering so after this semester, most of my classes will be sausage fests. I always wanted to sit next to some of the girls that always sit alone in my lectures but then I feel everyone would know what I'm doing. I even kinda autistically planned out coming in late so I would look like I just took whatever seat. Still scared to do that though.
>>17934085
That's how I feel. My ex would occasionally bring up her past sexual experiences and I fucking hated hearing it and I don't think she could understand why. I definitely feel left behind since my high school was very small so not many choices.

>>17934030
why do you have to marry him? you sound like your settling for trash

>>17934085
If you want to explore the depths to which he appreciates you not being with other men, just bring up wanting to do a MMF threesome. All the insecurities you thought you'd never even consider will float to the surface.

>>17934098
Try some student orgs then. Idk how big your school is, but there should be a business networking/professionalism organization that accepts all kinds of majors. Something like that would help loads in helping you socialize and there are usually an even ratio of women if not more. Also don't be afraid to try petty tricks to meet women. Don't be too obvious but the coming in late idea sounds fine honestly. Anything small and subtle to get your foot in the door should be fine.

>>17934123
Lol, he's already hit me with a strict "no" on that one without me having to ask. So at least I feel special in that regard. The thought of two men doing me is a scary one... I like feeling connected and safe with my partner, I don't get off on feeling dirty or used by two brutes at once.

>>17934104
No he's loyal and a good man, just doesn't view sex the way I do sadly. I'm still learning to deal with it, but he's worth it and proved his love time and time again. I empathize with OP, but I still believe love is more powerful than past sex.

>>17933973
roastie please fuck of.

and OP please dont fall for the church girl meme. yes you will have a much higher probability there but watch out

>>17934030
hahaha you lie roastie.

a 23 that had orgies and threesomes? get the fuck outa here

>>17934187
Former Liberal Arts student here, can confirm the orgies, etc. Horses were common.

>>17934144
I've looked through every organization my uni offers and none interest me except joining a fraternity which wouldn't help with finding a decent girl.

>>17934225
You've got to get out of your comfort zone then man if you are trying to pursue. Even community colleges have broad professionalism/networking orgs.

If you truly have no willing avenue in classes or through orgs then you'll have to depend on getting lucky and meeting some girl randomly. If you go through dating sites or parties you're not likely to find what you're looking for.

Are you religious at all? Finding a church might help you out honestly. I know everyone says that but that's because it's true.

>>17934247
Not religious at all and like most things, I'd feel uncomfortable going to a random church or religious oganization alone.

>>17934254
Unfortunately your best bet then is just happening upon a woman by chance. Just try to be social, meet people in order to meet more people, go to events and gatherings and try your luck. Find a friend, find out what they're up to and try to tag along. You gotta get a little uncomfortable in order to meet people. I say that from experience. I actually hate going out and doing most things(as to why I'm online on a saturday night), but I'm already engaged. At the very least force yourself to take opportunites that present themselves.

>>17934254
You can't meet a new girl if you're terrified of meeting new people.

>>17934154
every time he pumps you he's probably thinking of some girl he's had who had a better ass, better this or that, was freakier in bed, or whatever, are you okay with that?

>>17934382
She has to be. She has no other recourse.

>>17933952
>talk about wanting a high moral woman
>posts pornography

What a disgrace.

Ps. You should already be married by the time you are in college and about to have kids

>>17934460
That would mean marrying someone straight out of high school and the choices weren't ideal. Not a lot of intelligent people, and the ones that were got as far away as they could.

>>17934187
you never played in a band, did you?

>>17934043
I agree with tinder not beeing made for lasting relationships, but OKC and POF were great for me as someone, who never really felt an impulse to talk up random girls in the open. Got two LTRs out of it.

That is one exceptional ass.

>>17933967
He? Kek?

>>17934829
He means God.