Is being fake the only way to succeed in life? I've noticed

>>17933268
If you fake it in front of strangers, they probably won't notice, but if you do it in front of people you see everyday, they will notice you faking it.

>>17933289
Is there really only way to improve upon this then with those people. I realized people like me but I also haven't gotten close with any of these people an I think this may be why.

>>17933268
The sad reality is that in most places, be it online or in real life, pandering is usually what works best. You can either sell your soul and make a fake you, or be yourself and have the odds against you.

>>17933268
"fake it until you make it"
As long as you want to change yourself, i guess it really is the only way to get respect or likeness from other if you dont have it right now.

>>17933268
Listen, if you want a girl to notice you, you're going to need to start lifting. You can get a girl without being jacked , but let's face it: you aren't that interesting to begin with.
Ever notice that a girl just genuinely doesn't feel excited when you're around. That's a sign that you really don't light her fire.
With just 2 years of labor, you can get no girls being into you to every girl being into you. It's that easy.