My girlfriend hates porn. We've just finished having sex.

>>17932815

And she rightfully does so.

That's how it should have gone:

-Didn't we just have sex?
-Yes
-Do you want some more?
-No
-Hence porn

If she's fullfiling her dick cravings with you she doesn't have a reason at all. Unless you're just doing a half assed job fucking her...

>>17932847
You sir are clueless to the female perspective. Good luck in your future relationships.

OP how would you feel if you loved someone so much and thought you would last forever and have a happy life. Then to find out she spends half her days googling huge black cocks and buff male models because you arent enough for her? Takes the special out of a relationship for some girls and kills them inside. You're going to notice a change in her now. She's going to be a lot more suspicious, jealous and judgemental. I feel bad for her and any girl who goes through this. I know guys don't care and think it's nothing but most girls are different.

>2017
>watching porn


Have you missed the massive influx of NoPorn threads on 4chan? It is fucking terrible for your masculine health. Cut it out, now.

>>17933161
Stop generalising.
I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn sometimes, I watch porn too.
Having sex and masturbating is different. Having sex is about imtimacy, it is about pleasing each other, it is consuming both in terms of time and energies. We spend hours fucking, we both come many times. Masturbating is just for my own physical pleasure. Takes me 10 minutes, I get rid of horniness and I'm good.
I'd rather have my boyfriend watch porn and masturbate than having him basically masturbate with my body because we are too tired to fuck properly.

>>17933197
This

>>17932815
I don't understand what happened here.

Your phone was at 1% so your GF started watching porn and you found out later?

or

Your phone was at 1% so your GF grabbed it and discovered the porn -YOU- had been watching?

>has a gf
>has the unbelievable gall to still complain
Fuck you, you have no idea how good you have it.

>>17933197
I wasn't generalizing. That's why I said most girls, not all. Some don't give it up easy and others do, and that's the difference between class and trash.

>>17932815
I mean, you should explain how your relationship is I mean are you in a cutsie 5 year long one where you "just can't quite marry but we are hoping for the best" or is this a new GF.

This is how men act when they are tired of their old Battle Axe and just want to fantasize with some porn.
I would try to help you by saying that you should use open communication and tell your GF to do what you want the porn girls to do. If you can't orgasm without jacking off, have her do it to you, then you can hopefully after some time learn to allow some other girl to give you orgasms.

If you can move to that step later on you can expand your intimacy and blow loads inside her with condoms on or other birth control.

Maybe do a half way thing.

If you just like porn then still watch it but try to keep your porn life and sex life separated.

Personally, I don't get this perspective.
Obviously I can't know completely, but I'm fairly sure male sexuality works on a 'I want to cum now, whatever the outlet'.

It seems like some masturbation, provided it's not 5 times a day and making you have some kind of sexual dysfunction, is healthy for men.

My personal philosophy is that I can't be there every single time my man wants sex, so I don't care if he jacks off to porn to relieve the need.

Talk to your gf. Tell her it's not about her, and certainly keep it separate from your sex life.

>>17933410
You said "the female prospective". That isn't the female prospective, it is some childish and irrational woman's prospective.

Watching porn and masturbating sometimes is normal and healthy. Most people do (including women).
It doesn't mean that your relationship isn't going to last forever or it isn't happy.
It isn't normal to think that just because your boyfriend sometimes likes masturbating or watching porn then you're not special anymore.
It isn't normal to feel "dead inside" get suspicious, jealous and judgemental just because your boyfriend, sometimes, likes to masturbate.
It isn't normal to ruin a relationship over fapping.

Unless he isn't some kind of addict that faps to child pornography all day, you're fucking insane for getting mad over petty shit like that. "feeling bad" for women that go through the immense pain of finding out that their SO sometimes faps is ridiculous.

>>17933530
It's not to fapping. It's healthy and normal to masterbate once in a while. It's the porn and over use of porn. And yes it is weird shit like incest and stuff so maybe I am biased, it's fucking gross and weird and I want a man who wants to fuck me, not stare at a fucking screen all the time like some shut in virgin. I'm sure I'm not the only one to feel this way.

It depends on the girl, I know that I get hurt when I find it unintentionally. But if I don't find it or whatever I don't really have a problem with it.

Honestly I'd rather have him jerk off to thoughts of me or our intimate sessions. Which to most of my knowledge he does, when I can't take care of him of course. And that's not too often.

>>17933561
I want to cum 2-3 times a day. That's just me, as a male. I have an overly active sex drive, and it will calm down as I get older. My girlfriend is okay with 1-2 days every other day, any more than that and she is completely uninvolved.

Are you saying I should rape her to make up the difference instead of using porn?

>>17933561
Not all porn is incest porn. Most porn is much more boring than the sex I have with my boyfriend.
Most people watch porn because it take less time to get off if you have visual stimulation. It's just mechanical, to achieve physical pleasure.

> I want a man who wants to fuck me, not stare at a fucking screen all the time like some shut in virgin.
This is fucking ridiculous.
My boyfriend loves fucking me, and I love fucking him. We fuck probably every other day if not more since we were teens, and we're in our late 20s now.
Sometimes when we're not horny at the same time, or we're horny when the other isn't around or is busy, and we masturbate to porn. Sometimes we just want to get off and we don't want to actually fuck. I'd rather have a boyfriend who faps than a boyfriend who uses me to get off and then doesn't care.

I'm sorry if you have a bad experience, but don't pretend it is normal to feel so bad about your boyfriend fapping to porn once in a while.

>>17933161
>You sir are clueless to the female perspective. Good luck in your future relationship

Happily dating my gf for 8 years, having sex three times a week and getting her wet telling whatever I fapped too, thank you

Better to be clueless to the female perspective then being a clueless female like yourself, amirite?

Good luck finding a male to call your own, but I guess you'll have a better time dating women...

>>17933561
Lol if you can take the many dickings the average male wants to do daily, you should send your pussy juices to nasa, this shit must be a better lubricant then WD-40