My GF went clubbing in her hometown (she's spending the holidays there) tonight. She went with a depressed girl friend of her who just broke up. Said girl posted a FB status tagging her and another girl 1h ago saying "slut the cow". The status was liked by an ex fuck buddy of my gf I'm kinda jealous of. He's in china right now (FB checked, he's still there) and I have access to her FB and there's nothing strange in her messages (he hasn't spoken to her for months), yet I still don't like this. What's the meaning of this ?
this is basically gonna be /thread in terms of the factuality of the situation
you are worried because thoughts about cheating increase when time away from the partner increases. you're "paranoid" in a sense.
there aren't any connections to be made between all the facts you just gave us
another reason you might be worried is that clubbing and partying are obviously high-risk scenarios for cheating, so your worry is warranted in that way
but from a ((c b t)) vaporwave aesthetic standpoint, what is the worrying doing for you? is it gonna make her more loyal? is it going to help you accomplish anything?
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>>17931051
oh and she has fuckbuddies? so your worry is double-warranted. but 1.) you haven't found anything incriminating here, and 2.) your worrying is still useless.
maybe count your blessings. her being a slut does not necessarily mean that she is okay with cheating or that a single night fling would have any impact on your relationship.
>>17931051
He may become woke to the truth of his GF's slutty ways.
Nothing, I would assume. But then again, no one can know for sure.
Girls are fucking weird and party a lot.
All I can tell you is, good luck bro. Don't dwell on it too much.
Much like The Stoics, accept that things are meant to happen as they will and there is nothing you can do to possibly change that.
deus vult
>>17931038
She's a pro dancer but hates clubbing, only goes to dance, 90% of the times with me. She doesn't drink alcohol and turns down all men even just for dancing so not really worried in the situation but I don't get the status. I'm not worried but I just don't get why a friend of yours would post this, at the very best it's not classy at all.
>>17931063
I'm catholic aristotelician. fuck stoicians
>>17931059
I'm already woke
I assume he's woke as well.
I'm kind of a male slut, but I'm not a big social person, and I get tired easily, so one girl is enough for me.
I think it's important to differentiate between a fling that is for physical pleasure and an affair that is due to dissatisfaction with the relationship.
obviously I wouldn't opt for being with (or being) a cheater, but I'm just trying to establish a grey area here
the worst thing about people getting drunk and random fucking is that it's unrelatable to me, honestly. why would you want to do that if you were in love with someone?
but oh well
>>17931072
I'm a TradCat, if you are Novus Ordo then fuck off heretic.
>>17931072
>fuck stoicism, I'm aristolian
so you're wondering what you should do all the time, like in this thread
>>17931072
>makes a thread about concern for gf's loyalty
>i'm not worried about that, I'm just worried about a status her friend posted potentially signaling that she is disloyal
you're becoming paranoid and delusional
>>17931088
Just wondering and kinda mad about it. She's a classy girl and this kind of status is vulgar as fuck. What doest it even mean ?
Some semantic context : in french (we're both french living in France) there's an expression which is "la vache !" literally "the cow", which is basically "damn !" in a surprised way. So it could very well mean "damn, what a slut !" and was posted on her wall....
>>17931094
oh okay
makes sense now. the girl doing the vulgar posting is probably just trashed. girls neg each other all of the time.
>>17931094
It was posted in english though