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Okay, so when I'm with a girl in an intimate setting I find it difficult to make a move. When it occurs to me something could happen I get all tense and shivery, which is a turn off to women.
Is there something I can do to make the whole thing smother? I've never really kissed a girl and the thought is getting scarier and scarier.
An example of my ineptitute would be this:
>At a pary
>talking with a girl i know is interested
>She wants to play the shitty question game
>Ask's shit like "who are you crushing on right now", u know, stuff to get the ball rollin.
I clamp up and deflect the questions becuase im emotionally insecure.
Idk feel like im not being very lucid here, just maybe looking for some advice on the issue. Im 21 btw
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>>17926887
Keep trying. You'll learn what to do by learning what not to do. When you learn enough, you'll feel comfortable on your own and it will get easier. Maybe you even get some action in the meantime.
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Breathe. When you're around hot girls as a someone with little female experience, you hold your breath and get neurotic without even realizing.
Breathe, damnit. Whenever you feel out of control in any situation, take a deep breath.
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>>17926964
This.
Also, masturbate before these scenarios. If your body thinks it's done its reproductive duty, it won't flood you with so much emotional fuel (which you're interpreting as anxiety).
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>>17927003
Lol that's bullshit. It makes many people more awkward.
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Honestly had the same problem, but I had kissed girls before and had sex. In social situtions I tensed up, but my roomate said this to me:
"There will be a time where you'll tell yourself not to do it. I'm telling you that you have to, and if your judgement is correct, you'll never fail. If you do, who cares."
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