Quick version: What's the fine line between stalking and

>>17920781

is this some gay stuff ?

whatever watch what time he arrives/leaves the gym and then be outside when he is leaving walk past him

if that doesn't do it get a clue

>>17920781
I don't think getting hit on is a big deal for dudes. Unless you're also a dude in which case it might be a little uncomfortable for him.

>>17920799
I've honestly been trying this for about a month and I can never time it right. I can't think of a way to be near the door without obviously waiting.

>>17920805
Not a dude, which is why I don't want people to think they can suddenly start hitting on me. It's hard enough to deal with the thirsty stares now. The last thing I want to happen is for all the guys to suddenly think I'm approachable while I'm working out. Because 80% of the gym is middle-easterners.

>>17920781
what is the difference? even if you say hi outside of gym, you still have to see each other at gym every day & that is the only reason i can see why you woldnt hit on somebody @@ gym because it might be awkward/uncomfortable for somebody if you still see eachother same time every day if somebody gets rejected or some shit and like having to be weirded out by somebody staring at you or shit like that. anyways if you are a woman just say hi he won't give a fuck maybe just don't go all out until you get signals back from him.

>>17920824
Hi, OP here. I'm an autist from /fit/. I get the funny feeling the guy I'm trying to attract might have that same brand of autism. I should add, that in addition to the periodic dancing, he wears the shortest shorts probably in existence (maybe he's gay...) and does a powerlififting style routine.
I'm just worried a simple hi won't do it.