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>be me
> go to an alternative club with socially awkward people in it
> not your typical grind on each other type of club
> meet girl
> she makes it clear she liked my vibe
> dance with her and her friend all night
> decide to take my friend home
> get the girls number
> all her touching me and her wanting to hold hands with me tells me she wasn't friend zoning me
So... I'm confused here. Does this girl want to hook up or do different rules apply with girls who aren't ratchet club sluts? As in, do I be straightforward and arrange a hook up or do I gotta take this girl out? And to what?
She also gave me a disclaimer she was at least a decade older than me but I told her I'm cool with that. And asked if she was alright with hanging out with someone younger than her. (I'm 26. She's... Do the math)
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>>17912912
She's old enough to not be a ratchet club slut. Take things slow and easy, talk to her, take her out somewhere like a cool bar and talk, and you'll work out what her deal is quick.
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>> go to an alternative club with socially awkward people in it
Please fucking elaborate.
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>>17912928
Probably a rock bar/club
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>>17912920
Yea here's my text to her from last night. I restrained myself from making out with her although I'm confident I could have. Her friend was watching us so I didn't wanna have her friend give her buyers remorse or anything
>>17912928
Like, where all the social outcasts from your high school go. Like your Goths and everything
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>>17912953
>Like, where all the social outcasts from your high school go. Like your Goths and everything
Oh. You meant """outcasts""". I thought you meant autistic shut-ins and weaboos.
Thanks a lot faggot, no help at all.
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>>17912962
Lol what... It's a different club than what I'm used to
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>>17912953
Wow those messages are full-on autism mode. Do you have a single ounce of game in your body at all?
You don't *ask* to call. You just call.
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>>17913037
Lol my friend told me to send them :/
I would've just said it was nice meeting you. Get home safe
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>>17913108
I didn't fuck up too bad did I?
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>>17913116
You're 26. If you can't figure shit out by now, you're a lost cause.
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>>17913125
Hmm... If I were to give myself advice I'd probably say just stop coming across as weak. Whether or not she responds is irrelevant
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>>17913217
Basically. The messages there are weak af. Why would an older woman, who can date older, more confident men, go for someone who doesn't have the self confidence to call her when *they* want to call her?
If she hasn't responded within 24 hrs, forget the whole thing.
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>>17913320
The friend giving me advice that night has a bit of experience on me so I trusted what he said, even though my instinct was to go with something a bit more casual.
My instinct also told me to just straight makeout with her but... Her friend was watching like I said. Never had to deal with what felt like two girls at once before. Oh well. Throw this into the experience bucket
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My instinct tells me there's a way to recover from being weak but it'll be hard given that we met at a nightclub... You'd have to make one hell of an impression otherwise you'd just be forgotten
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Your message is cute, and if she's an older woman into younger guys she probably likes sweet stuff like that (which everyone else is telling you is weak).
Anyway, obviously she wants to go out with you, so everything is fine, have fun, anon.
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>>17913497
She seemed to really like my presence. Just a lot of doubt was on her face when we were discussing age
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