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What's wrong with me

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19 year old virgin, can't masturbate on command. When I hear most people talking about masturbating they mention how they know when they are going to cum. For me, I just happen to notice that after I have been thinking of hugging someone my vagina gets wet, like I have already orgasmed or something.
And so they're always like "get off on watching porn".
So I really only go on porn sites to look at other girls and check if they are prettier than me. I can't really imagine masturbating to porn because it feels like a cuck fest, and I just don't have motivation to try sticking my fingers in. And I can't imagine having sex for my own pleasure only rather than pleasing the other person because they think I'm the best, or else it's a waste of time.
Is this normal?
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>>17903493
you clearly need an alpha chad to toss you around and knock your vagina straight
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>>17903493
Getting wet is not an orgasim or getting off. Thats your body preparing itself for sex. When you think those thoughts your body hopes its going to happen, and so it lubricates itself for the eventual penitration.

And trust me , you will know when your going to orgasim. I was similliar to you, but after losing my virginity it all clicked.
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There's nothing wrong with your feelings.

Not everyone is aroused by the same things.

Not everyone masturbates.

I can't put much validity into porn being a "cuck fest" (I'm not even sure what you mean by that) but if you don't find it arousing, that's not unusual.

Maybe try erotic literature, sounds, or just thoughts and fantasies like you've described.

If you're moved to touch and manipulate your genitals and/or other erogenous zones, just listen to your body and do what feels good.

It may be you'll only get pleasure from actual sex play with another person (or people). If so, that's OK too. Just make sure all parties are legally consenting, and be as safe as possible.
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>>17903493
>can't masturbate on command
From what I can tell you don't masturbate at all.
>after I have been thinking of hugging someone my vagina gets wet
That's kinda cute. Who do you think of hugging?
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ever try humping a pillow
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>>17904258
The only boyfriend I've had that I'm hoping will come back to me ;n; but I like to pretend we are still dating
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>>17903493
Have sex and then jerk it to that
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>>17903493

You are a woman. Women are very weird and random when it comes to how often, why, how, and whether they can masturbate. Haven't you ever listened to a sex radio show or something? We guys need to jerk off all the time and we pretty much need only porn or at least the same fantasies. With females, it's all over the place.
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That's weird lol. I've been masturbating for what seems like forever. Then again I was exposed to porn at an early age so there's that. I think that anything sexual turns me on if I think about it enough.its not always soaking wet turned on but I do get that horny feeling.
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