When I see attractive men, think about gay sex or watch gay porn my chest feels funny, i blush a little and I feel like I really want to do lewd things with a guy.
but none of those things give me a boner.
am i gay or not?
>>17899922
That would make you at the very least bisexual. Embrace.
>>17899922
You're gay son
>When I see attractive men
>am i gay
>>17899928
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>>17899932
but if i am gay, how am i supposed to have gay sex if this stuff doesnt give me a boner?
>>17899936
You don't need a boner to get fucked up the ass
>>17899936
You haven't even tried lol
I bet you when you get that ass you'll be ready to fuck through a sandbag
It's called experimentation
Gay guys get off on teaching guys
>>17899922
probably. try fapping to it. if you literallycant get an erection than you're just homo romantic.
>>17899944
i cant fap to gay porn videos
but i can fap to imagining gay sex, written gay smut, and yaoi
so what does that make me?
>>17899922
I think people confused being emotionally affected with being gay or queer. If you watch a gay porn and you feel a lot of confusing feelings that is usually just your brain trying to make sense of that scenario and how you feel juxtaposed with your inner belief in your sexuality giving you cognitive dissonance.
If you see very large and breast like male chest like the one in the gif and its being sensuously rubbed it would make anyone feel a bit aroused and uncomfortable. It doesn't make you gay or even bi. Watching men have sexual pleasure makes it tempting for you to fantasize about yourself being in their position so you could feel it too.
Also, sexuality is arousing by its nature to witness. In fact, straight males are very attracted to penises. I thought this link was interesting http://www.baka.com.au/technology/technology-news/our-sexual-desires-exposed-by-neuroscientists-porn-study-20110621-1gcol.html
It was listing exerpts from this book that went deep into male pornography habits. >"The four body parts that both straight and gay men are wired to find sexually interesting are: chests, butts, feet and penises. Heterosexual men are very interested in looking at penises, especially large penises."
>Orgas said heterosexual men searched for penises almost as often as they search for vaginas and out of the top 35,000 most popular adult sites, roughly 1000 were devoted to large penises.
So its natural to look at lewd acts and feel randy even if they are gay but since you don't want to participate in gay sex you aren't really gay.
>>17899936
Either take it in the ass, or see if actual physical contact and activity does give you a boner. Straight porn excites me plenty but no boner for me until i start working at it.
But seeing a girl naked live gets me diamonds in seconds flat.
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>>17899942
okay, one of my gay friends agreed to help me figure things out tomorrow night
ill report back in a few days
>>17899959
Op clearly said he wants to be involved.
Thanks for the education, for real, but he did say he feels he wants in. Further posts suggest hes more worried about the fact he isnt getting a bone and wonders if he will if he tries it.