Is it possible to lose my virginity in 2 months? There's

escorts. protitution. uggos.

You're building it up in your head and you're going to be very very disappointed.

Is there an on demand wingman service

There should be

>>17899505
You have the wrong mindset.
Sex is a part of a normal, healthy social and romantic life.
You shouldn't focus so much on losing your virginity. You should focus on acquiring a normal, fulfilling social/romantic life.

>>17899505
I've seen this photo posted here multiple times, and it's always these hopeless losers posting it. How about this: don't try to force a conversation when you have nothing to say, you stupid black baby.

I lost my virginity this year at 23 at I swear to god, overrated as fuck. It's nice the first 5 times but then it's not all the bullshit you have to go through

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>>17899505
OP, LISTEN TO THIS ANON!

If you sort yourself up sex will come, but you are putting the cart ahead of the horse. No point in rushing like this.

>>17899505
24 is just a number and technically if you count the egg and sperm cells that made you as well as your time in the womb you're closer to 25 than you are 24.

>>17899584
Is that supposed to help?

>>17899541
But I can't live with myself as a 24yo virgin. You hear of 23yo virgins from time to time, but 24 and up is just beyond pathetic.

>>17899505
Yes.

The way I did it was by acting. Just act like you're the star of a movie and nothing can go wrong. You are Ryan Gosling or Brad Pitt, you are witty and well dressed.

Worked for me. Chick I lost it to cried and asked if I was playing her for sex afterwards. Weird way to lose one's virginity. I had previously dicked a hole in the side of a fleshlight and was worried I fucked up her vagina or something.

>>17899549
That's alway me I guess. It's just a funny pic not related to anything...

>>17899601

So let's imagine you manage to do it. What will be your next obsession? Your problem is not that you are a virgin. Your problem is that you let a number define whether you are "normal" or not.

Getting your dick wet won't solve that. You'll just start worrying about getting married or something afterwards. Work on yourself and your mental health dude.

>>17899601
Normally people don't discuss about their virginity.
Statistics say that around 1/9 people in the 20-24 age group are still virgin. You're surely not the only 24 year old virgin.

>>17899619
You're right, I'm worrying about getting married already. It's not like I haven't been trying to get laid, but I haven't managed it and it gets tougher and tougher. I don't actually want casual sex, I want a girlfriend, but I can't manage to do that either. I just don't wanna have to admit to everybody that I was a virgin for so long. Even if nobody realises it otherwise, knowing that brands me as a freak in everbody'y minds.

>>17899635
> knowing that brands me as a freak in everbody'y minds.

Not really. Obsessing over it is the problem. If you don't care, it won't matter.

Why the fuck are people so fucking obsessed with losing their virginity these days? Have some fucking morals and responsibility, this is why the world is burning right now, fucking egos everywhere

>>17899641
I also feel losing it would help me get over a lot of stress and anxiety that is attached to it and it could help me lead this "normal life" already... that's all I really want.

I fear I will struggle to have sex with one woman then maybe get one other gf in my life that I will reluctantly settle down with. I don't like that outlook at all.

>>17899648
>it could help me lead this "normal life" already

Cart and horse again. First work on your anxieties and shit, then get laid. Not the other way around.

>>17899505

if your virginity is so unimportant that you can just give it to anyone in order to lose it, then its certianly not worth killing yourself over.

>>17899648
But life doesn't work like that.

I'll give you an example.
I stress a lot about my appearance, and when I stress I binge-eat.
Being thin and fit will surely make me less likely to be so stressed about my appearance and probably will make me reduce my binge eating habit, but I definitely cannot get thin and fit if I don't start dieting and working out.
You're expecting to magically get thin, so you can stop worrying about being fat and enjoying yourself.

You don't lose your virginity because you suddenly fall into a vagina with your dick. You need to work through it like everyone else would - improve your appearance, your social skills and such. Unless you put effort in improving yourself you won't see any result.

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>>17899660
I realize that. It's important to be authentic and lead a good life, but I still feel a huge amount of shame and regret over the number 24, know what I mean?

I feel you OP. I'm only 20 but this a couple months ago I was close to having sex with a girl for the first time in my life. The girl noticed that I was very clumsy with kissing, making out etc. and she was like "You probably haven't been a lot with girls, am I right?". I had to admit that I didn't have much experience and after that she didn't want to have sex. She gave me a handjob though.

Things were going pretty good with her before that. Ofc, I can't be sure she didn't want to have sex because of me being inexperienced but I think it was that. I guess it just is such a big turn-off for some girls.

>>17899681
I surely know what you mean.

But you should realise it is just a number. How does losing your virginity in January or in June change anything? Being 23 or 24 when you lost your virginity doesn't change anything.

Also - you don't have to talk about your virginity with anyone, no one will randomly find out and judge you for losing your virginity at 24. It is okay. Work and improve yourself, and sex will probably just happen.

>>17899722
I don't know... I have illusions of finding "the one" before I turn 30 and have some fun before then... I want to maximise my fun time and screen for "her" effectively.

>>17899791

Stop over-planning your life. You are setting yourself up for disappointment.

>>17899505
Tinder.

It honestly doesn't matter. I wouldn't care if I dated a pure guy. I would just have to teach him when we start doing it.

>>17899816
I fucked my tinder up. Apparently there's an ELO ranking that plummets if you try to reset your account, now I can't get any matches anymore.

>>17899505
Just hold out mang, keep making friends and they'll help you out of pity.

That's what happened to me a month before I turned 24

I still haven't had sex again

Or kissed a girl again

Trust me, it gets worse after you have it and then never have it again

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>>17899601
Charles Bukowski lost his virginity at 24, and he's recognized as one of the greatest modern american writers.

Just don't try so hard op, focus on constructive things in the mean time, girls can sense it when guys are needy.

>>17899999
Dem fifetuplets

I don't think any of you understand my fears and my plight. I've wasted my life. No teenage sex for me, no high school sex... I'm sad as hell for missing that and I will probably miss out on a lot more in the next few years. I just want to get rid of my v card so at least I can stop worrying about that...

>>17900024
>I just want to get rid of my v card so at least I can stop worrying about that...

That won't make you happy! You have to learn to deal with not fulfilling all your expectations. As I already said, after the v-card, you'll find more shit to be miserable about. That's just how you behave. Deal with that first.

>>17900042
Then WHAT do I do? I'm lonely as hell. I have hobbies, I work out, I'm fashionable... what the fuck does it take for me to be happy then?

>>17900048
We all told you.
Work on getting a healthy social life - go out, make friends, meet new people, stop being awkward and shy. Get more confident, charismatic.

>>17900048

That's a process you have to make by yourself, maybe with the help of a professional.

We can't offer you the answer, you have to find it.

>>17900061
I'm fucking killing myself tonight. No point going to therapy for five years at this point.

Backpage

>>17900079
Why are you killing yourself? Over being virgin? It's a bit silly.

>>17900079
If a man was 20 years old with no legs and arms but could get them back at 25 if he chose to live and keep those arms and legs until he died around 80 would you say that he should just kill himself instead of waiting?

>>17900079

Really no point in giving up. You can still have fun. Don't waste what you have. And seriously, talk to someone that knows what they are doing. Every country has a suicide hotline and most have Non-Profits that might offer cheap counseling if you can't pay for it. Make your life better, don't throw it away.

>>17900105
At least that guy has an excuse. I don't. I'm just a social retard who squanders all of his gifts and potentials. It's maddening.

>>17899505
I'm 5'2" and I'm a 22 year old virgin that sees a lot of guys like you with cute girls.

Why give up with all those advantages? Try asking out 50 girls like me. I didn't get results, but I'm sure you will.

If only there was some type of service or profession out there where girls would let you fuck them without asking questions.

>>17900176
Honestly, that's the point at which I have to say, suicide is just better.

>>17900189
Suicide >>> sex with an escort or pornstar

I'm 6'2 tall average looking 26 years old virgin. Hate my life because of that. I have become really depressed about it and i want kill myself. I don't know how to solve this problem because i have almost tried everything.

>>17900204
Let's just di it together, man. What's the point anymore?

>>17899505
I'm 26 and still a virgin. I have a well-paying job, a decent circle of friends, and an apartment and car all my own. I deal with the same social anxieties as any other person, and I understand that talking to people with the pretense of sex is intimidating.

I used to think that I "missed" my teenaged years, or that sex could only really count towards personal growth if I did it before a certain age. Throughout college and the professional world, I learned that people can be decent, wholesome, wonderfully interesting individuals without sex being part of the picture. I realized that much of what I thought sex was meant to be was influenced by pornography or other people, and that actual, real sex was much less about arbitrary physical milestones.

This put me very much at ease. I focused on my studies, my job, and my personal life, and I found the very idea of sex, which I once thought of with trepidation and shame, to be quite blase.

You have to get out of your own way, anon. Your teenaged years are over, and your experiences there are exactly the same as every other teenager's. Focus on yourself.

>>17900225
Just because you'e given up doesn't mean I don't still crave intimacy...

>>17900235
>Given up
Who says I've given up? Getting my other affairs in order has made dating much easier.

Stop looking for excuses to be miserable.

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>>17899505
In a similar boat. Wanna lose it before I turn 20 in a few months (so I can say I had teen sex lol). I thought I was on track but then my gf JUST broke up with me right as the semester ended.

My plan due next semester is to meet as befriend a bunch of people without explicitly focusing on girls to date since I feel that'll give me the wrong mindset (too desperate).

Is this a good plan guys? I don't think I'm suited for random college hookups considering I'm still a virgin. Just gotta find someone while I'm still a teen lol.

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>>17900248
>has made dating much easier.
Hows are you still a virgin then?

Better to lose virginity because you genuinely want to instead of losing it because you are afraid of what society thinks of you for not losing it before 24. If you haven't done it it means that subconsciously you couldn't care less (and that is good, who gives a fuck about your intimacy anyway).

>>17900298
???
I do. And no, I cared immensly. It's just me being socially retarded and women not being into me, ever.

>>17899505

I bet you're one of these guys that wouldn't even be seen with a bbw goddess, and I bet you rate girls on a ten point scale.

If I am wrong, I will help you lose your virginity in less than two months

>>17899635
>and it gets tougher and tougher

you have no idea what you are talkign about

when I was your age, I had one one night stand. That didnt make a yota of a difference. but the older you get the easier it gets. Beeing social and outgoing means all to girls that want to party and experience life, but that's not what you have to offer. The girls that look for someone like you who is solid and has good genes are 26 and upwards and definitely not looking to date anyone younger than them.

Getting a chick that wants to commit longterm when you are older is as easy as counting to three:
1. have a job
2. be clean
3. be nice to her
And you have your wife.
Did you read anything about sex there?
oh if you go down on her sometimes, you are already an outstanding husband and keeper. Nowhere did I write anything about virginity, because girls are not used to getting good sex, because it's only good if there is passion and emotion behind it, which only a husband can offer.

>tl;dr: You know nothing John Snow Anon

>>17900350
I definitely don't want to have sex with an obese woman. Chubby is cool with me. I put effort into my appearance and somebody who just obviously doesn't puts me off.
I don't rate women on a scale except for 0 as in no interest and 1 as in interest.

Can you help me in that case or no?

>>17900358
>1. have a job
>2. be clean
>3. be nice to her
That's a pretty soft list of requirements, almost every guy out there fulfills that. Who the hell doesn't clean himself?

>>17900380
Lol I do none of these and still fuck girls weekly

I hate showers
Only take em like every couple days

>>17900362

I'll give you the quick version

>shower, use unscented soap and a body wash with a smell you like, clip your nails, use body spray or cologne, shave your pubes, have a bit of designer stubble, get your eyebrows professionally waxed
>dress in a way that correlates to the music or culture you like, and with the women you're trying to attract. Look at musicians in the bands you like and dress like them. Buy clothes from h&m, Forever 21, and Target has some cool, cheap clothes.
>Take some good selfies.
>Get on OKC, POF, Tinder, and even Facebook
>Describe yourself as a good guy who is looking for a relationship. Say you're not like other guys.
>Talk to as many women as you can, without letting them know you are also talking to a lot of other women.
>compliment them and act enthused to talk to them
>The ones who are interested you'll be able to tell. The ones who arent interested don't matter, so don't be offended.
>Talk to them a lot. Small talk at first. Getting to know them. Try to flirt a little. After a couple days you can tell them you like them.
>Hang out a lot. Make it seem like you'll always be willing to go to them. Make it seem like you'll drop whatever you're doing just to see them.
>Try to meet the parents so you seem like a good guy
>First hang out you don't push for sex. The most you want to do is hold hands and kiss them goodnight.
>Second hang out you can start pushing for sex. Don't be offended when you get rejected. Just play it cool, keep the good guy act up, and keep being persistent.
>If they don't have sex after a few hangouts ask, "sorry, I just really like you but sometimes I feel like you don't like me as much as I like you..."
>Eventually one will be willing to bang.

Now I'll be honest, this is how you be a manwhore, this won't get you a serious girlfriend or a wife and family. But for just sleeping around a lot, this will get you far. But to be honest, sex is pointless. Nothing will change about you after.

>>17900350
Every dude rates women on a 0 to 10 scale. If your bf tells you he doesn't he is lying.

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>>17900393
Or...

>>17900406
A bottle of vodka and a car gets you far with 18-20 year olds

I don't know anymore. I want to have sex, have gfs and have fun in my life but I'm too depressed to do anything about it. Therapy helps and drugs do too but I can't bring myself to work on myself because even if I did, I'd be borderline "normal" by like age 30. I don't know what to do anymore and I just want to die.

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>>17900419
drunken master crouching autist

Tinder, man.


Literally within 24 hours of my ex dumping me, I found a hot asian who was DTF. Repeated the process and fucked over a dozen girls over the course of a few months.

Tinder is basically free prostitutes.

>>17900189
What the hell are you talking about? If you don't want to have sex with a pretty girl then you're not even heterosexual.

>>17900633
I fucked my algorithm by deleting the account and trying again. Maybe I'm just ugly but I don't get matches. Like two in a month.

>>17899541
I'm doing everything I want to in life right now but none of it involves a chance to meet a female ever. I mean like I will talk to under 10 new female people per year. Cut out 50% who are married, another 30% usually way older than me and the 2 left usually don't strike me in any meaningful way.

Whats the answer here? Go to places I don't enjoy for more chances? Seems counterproductive.

>>17900651

Damn, really? Two in a month? Were you using all your likes daily? Did you have at least 3 pictures? One of your face, one of full body and with friends, and one of you holding an animal?

What did your bio say?

Tinder is weird. But even when I just had two pictures of myself up and a bio that said "Vodka and hiking." I was getting at least 20-40 matches a week.


If you are ugly, I'm sorry.

>>17899549
Yeah jeez just seeing it this one time. I simultaneously cringed and felt bad for all the people who would identify that, and cringed cause I probably felt that way in like middle school