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I made a thread here a few weeks ago about my boyfriend and our terrible sex life (or the fact we don't really have one) He feels like a best friend that SOMETIMES has sex with me IF he hasn't fapped.
I have been masturbating more and overall changing my view of him as a sexual option, so far it's working and I don't have the desire to have sex with him as much. I am learning to enjoy his company more without being resentful about his porn/masturbation habits.
I have stopped shaving/waxing so I don't have the temptation to have sex with him too.
Can this have a negative impact on our relationship in the future? I am scared I am going to start wanting sex from other people since I am training myself not to desire him and I'll end up hurting him in the long run.
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>>17898083
dafuq
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Your boyfriend faps?
Either you're ugly, or he's autistic.
Either way: confront him.
If he screeches, leave him. If he makes up excuses for his fapping, leave him. If he changes, you're welcome--although this scenario is highly unlikely, because he's most likely autistic, or you're undesirable.
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>>17898083
Sounds like he only fucks you out of convenience so who cares if you have sex with someone else this guy seems more interested in being your friend than your bf anyway
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drop his ass. You gon get hurt, he gon get hurt. Hurt a little less now than a lot later.
Honestly I don't understand how can a couple work if they don't share the same vision on sex. It's one of the most important things.
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>>17898088
Sorry
>>17898090
Yes he faps and I have already confronted him about it for the past 3 years. Nothing has really changed apart from the fact he stopped paying for porn and having phone sex with escorts.
I don't want to talk to him about it anymore, it's really embarrassing and just causes tension and problems.
>>17898092
Well I wish he would just be my friend but he doesn't want to break up and won't be just my friend (his words)
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>>17898100
wow what a psychopath.
I always found sex to be a really important bonding time, getting to know each other and opening up. It really brought me closer to my gf, very often not once.
Communication is the most important thing when someone is not entirely happy with how things are.
whatever this is you are having, you deserve better and i am sure if he really is a good friend to you then he will prove to stay one even if you have to change the way you two address each other.
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>>17898100
Not being able to talk about what bothers you is a huge red flag of a bad relationship
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Break up
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>>17898100
i want your boyfriend, no joke. asl?
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>>17898327
You're damaged and should probably fix whatever's wrong with you instead of bothering people who have real problems.
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I went through a similar thing and ended up just breaking up
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