Should I text my ex Merry Christmas? It's been just over a month since we've talked.
no don't
>>17887470
Nah
Never maintain any form of contact with her and move on to a better gf.
>>17887470
Dude no never contact an ex.
>>17887470
Depends on how you broke up.
Me and my ex still go for happy birthday/merry Christmas but we broke up on good terms.
If you still have intense feelings, good or bad, don't.
>>17887470
I dont see any harm. But if he/she doesnt respond would it bother you?
>>17887521
What are the pluses that could come out of it
She says nothing, nothing
If she says merry Christmas back you just read merry Christmas on a text and now they will start thinking about their ex all Christmas
>>17887538
Wby assume op is a guy?
>>17887548
That's what you're gonna take from my post
You get coal
>>17887558
Tbh im annoyed i spelt why wrong.
>>17887521
Honestly probably not. I'd just do it to test the waters and see if she still thinks about me on some minor level. No response would mean I could more easily move on. A response could mean nothing as well, but it'd still be nice. But from the other anon's are saying, it seems like no contact is going to be the best way forward, huh?
>>17887570
Do it now a report back.
hijacking your thread.
gf bday is dec 27
should i break up with her after or before new years?
before her bday?
>>17887570
Moving on is better
There's a reason you broke up
>>17887470
It really doesn't matter. I mean if there's felling attached yea don't but if it's just "Merry Christmas" or whatever who gives a shit. I probably wouldn't seeing as you guys broke up a month ago but it's on you
>>17887583
Get out of having to give her a gift and slay some New Years bitch
>>17887576
She said thank you
>>17887871
How did that make you feel
>>17887883
Good
>>17887871
At least you had the balls to do it.
Can i see your balls?
Fucking don't, I know it may hurt yet you know the old "never go full retarded" thing. This is a clear case of it.
Do not fucking do that
>>17887470
Texting merry christmas is just polite. You can make it look like a copy and paste message you sent everyone in your contact list, if you just want to get a reaction out of him.
no. this is coming from a guy who has thought about this question before. looking back i'm so glad i didn't do it.