>made a good number of friends in the past 2 years
>they all enjoy my personality apparently
>when we hang out some guys straight up tell me they came just because they were looking forward to spend time with me
>a girl even said that without me it wouldn't be as fun
And yet I'm gonna spend the holidays alone and miserable like the past 10 years.
I just wanna spend time with somebody I appreciate, but I'm never part of anybody's plans.
>>17887262
doesn't make sense
if you want somebody special you need to tell him/her that ask them on a date 1-1 not with other people
yes this really does make a difference !
>>17887262
Having basket of friend is useless. You need one good friend that will be your soul-friend, aka best friend that you will completely trust.
>>17887262
Maybe they are being sarcastic.
>>17887262
If they're not being sarcastic, you're the heart of the group; I've been that for a while and while it does feel good it's annoying at times when you feel you have to show up somewhere or else you kill people's plans.
As far as dating, all I can tell you is keep an open mind, meet as many people as possible and when you find someone you're interested in don't pussy around
>>17887577
That's not what I was talking about
>>17887597
I think I do have a couple of those, one lives too far away.
The other... is the only one I don't understand if he appreciates having me around or not.
>>17887627
>>17887644
Nah they're not being sarcastic,
>>17887876
>Nah they're not being sarcastic,
Forgot to finish.
>>17887644
I see, still I was hoping somebody would invite me to do something for the eve.
They're pretty much my only social circle, I guess they have their own though.
>>17887882
Ok but did you invite anybody over to do something? Maybe they thought you already had plans because you seem so happy/good friend all the time.
>>17887922
No, they all live pretty far from me and have a way more developed social life than I do.
There's only one person I'd be able to see, but even if I invited them I'd have no Idea what to do, and 1 on 1 eve is kinda sad either way.
>>17887262
Host a party or lunch or something