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I've liked a shit ton of guys during my high school years, and most of them were my friends who never liked me back because I was an ugly fat obnoxious feminist. One of them was one of my best friends for a couple of years, and I told my boyfriend about him, and that I liked him, after this friend and I had a fallout. Now my boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable with me even talking to this guy online, which we did occasionally after making up, because I liked him. However, if he knew that I liked a bunch of other guys from high school, he would feel uncomfortable with me talking to literally anyone.
Now, this ex-friend is asking me to meet up. And the only reason I want to say yes is because I'm so lonely and spend most of my day in tears while my boyfriend needs alone time and all. I'd much rather be spending time with my boyfriend, but he doesn't want to. Should I hang out with this friend to pass the time? Or should I find friends who are girls with whom to do that...
I just feel like it's unfair of my boyfriend to ask me not to spend time with someone whom I only spend time with when my boyfriend wants to be alone.
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>>17881939
Also I sincerely have absolutely no more feelings for anyone other than my boyfriend. All of these feelings to which I'm referring were in the past.
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>>17881939
Are you still an ugly fat feminist?
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>>17881939
Because you used to be an ugly, fat obnoxious feminist (in your words), it would be foolish to believe that some of that crazy is not still present. The fact that you "spend most of your days in tears" reinforces that and suggests a level of co-dependence that requires therapy to manage. Because you are a woman it's already a stretch for you to be able to think rationally, but add the crazy factor in and it is clear you cannot be trusted to make good decisions. Cut this ex-friend out of your life (and probably all men) and work on yourself. One day hopefully you'll be able to function as normal person and friendships will be possible again...with women. After all, friendships with the opposite sex are not possible unless both parties are physically repulsed by the other.
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Dude listen, stop talking to those guys if you take your bf seriously, but let him know that you don't feel like he's taking YOU seriously. Relationships are give and take, if you sacrifice something, be it friends or whatever, he too needs to contribute.
Let him know you wanna be taken places, on dates, or places to hang out at, a mall, beach, i dunno, whatever. You're not an animal to keep in a cage.
But respect his request, because you really don't know what a pain in the ass it is to know a woman talks to other guys that like her, when you take her seriously. It frankly is enough to hate a woman. If you attract vulnerabilities into your life, you will create instability, and ruin perfectly good things.
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>>17882037
True true. If I knew a guy like me, I wouldn't go anywhere with him. It's just history of being friend zoned by this friend that led me to think that hanging out with this guy friend is no big deal. But his opinion of me might have changed.
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>>17882072
Whatever. Just don't be a slut.
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