So I'm dating 2 girls at once. It's nothing serious

100% too far. You've gone on four dates with #1 and kissed her. Drop the other girl

>>17881406
never ever tell especially since its only dating. What usually happens you begin to like one more and drop the others

Actually 3 is the optimum number if you have no intention of being serious. There is always one leaving your orbit and another one or two entering.

OP here. If it helps, we're all college educated adults.

>>17881409
That's what I was thinking. So what's the best way to drop the other girl? From what I can tell she really enjoys my company and we've been nothing but nice and respectful to each other. I shouldn't expect her to take it too hard if we've just been on 2 dates, right?

>>17881418
That's the messed up part man... I could see myself getting serious with either of them. Although it's odd that I don't have a lot in common with either one.

>>17881435
then perhaps neither is really the girl for you and why I suggested 3. I takes the either/or dynamic out and it accentuates the similarities and differences in each that you like or dislike.

>>17881409
Oh, shut up. If that's all it takes for you to swoon over someone and get jealous, that's cool, but it's not like that for everyone.

The usual mentality for things like this, especially since you're not officially with either chick is "don't ask, don't tell", meaning if it never comes up in conversation, it doesn't need to.

Do you tell a company about all the other positive interviews you had, mid-interview? No, because you're not actively trying to destroy your own chances. Duuuuhhhhhhhhh

I'm dating two guys and everyone gives me shit. I thought advice would be a lot meaner.
Guy #1 is in senior year of college no job. Not really sure if he's the one. 9/10 amazing in bed. Doesn't pay for dates. Cheap.
Guy #2 good job older by 5 years. Skeleton skinny though. 6/10 alright in bed. Pays for dates. Is super intelligent.

>>17881406
Man the fuck up, manage to have a threesome

>>17881595
The difference is that OP only kissed the girl, you've actually slept with both guys. That's messed up.

>>17881595
It's obvious that you're going to start a stable relationship with #2 but fuck #1 every week behind his back.