How do you get a gf if youre living with the immense shame of being a khv with no relationship experience at almost 24yo? I'm fit and talk but I can't get a gf because my selfworth is non existant because of this. What do?
>>17878774
why don't you bone tinder sluts for experience?
If you're in shape it shouldn't be an issue. Mention you're a virgin, and I'm sure there's a turboslut that is excited to show you the time of your life, and probably be a regular thing.
>>17878774
Extended vacation in Thailand. Guaranteed gf who wants to become wife.
>>17878794
I fucked my tinder elo by swiping right on all, deleting the app and starting a new account, which apprently bascially puts me so far down the stack that no woman will ever see me. I can't reset it unless I buy a new phone, change my number and make a new facebook profile, but even then my pictures aren't the best.
>>17878774
nigga, I'm a 32yo khv. You still have time, its not too late. That said, there's this 15yo thats been coming onto me recently in my apartment complex; wish me luck!
>>17878774
keep trying
find some social activities & go there
look into "contra dancing" ezpz no partner needed much fun - i've seen a few dweebs there who blossomed into normal guys :)
>>17878774
You don't, in your current state that is.
Stop basing your selfworth on wimin or previous experiences (or the lack of them). Find other hobbies beyond fit-stuff to raise your confidence, do social shit with your friends. Rest is a matter of time.
Basically your goal now should be not a girl but yourself.
>>17878921
I've been doin that for years now. Women don't get magically delivered to me. I know there must be something wrong with me but I'm not seeing it at the moment.
>>17878925
The whole focus on women is definitely a part. Although it's impossible to tell more with limited info.
What other social shit did you do? How did it go?
>>17878936
I don't really do any social shit... I just don't know what. I'm bad at sports and dancing and too bad at guitar to join a band. I think dancing would be an easy way to meet girls but if I just go there to do that it won't work either...
>>17878942
Hence you need start becoming good at social shit. Even shit like Tinder won't work otherwise.
>>17878950
As I said, can't use tinder. I just think I'd be a hell of a lot more social if I wasn't so damn loveless and depressed about it. I can't enjoy anything because my mind is always on it...
Bamp
>>17878801
From what I understand, resetting will only do just that - reset your point rating. Try again. It's not like it will give you a huge penalty. You're just imagining things most likely. Get back to swiping.
>>17879050
Then I'm actually ugly... fuck.
>>17879055
your profile probably just sucks
it barely matters how ugly you are, just have good pictures and a good description
I don't know man... I'm a hopeless romantic who likes to fall in love with a girl IRL, my tinder dates never really *feel* good to me...