>Me 25
>Got into an argument a couple of weeks ago
>Fiancé, mother of my 2 kids, wants to break up
>Been in the relationship for 7 years
>I Work 10 hours, 5-6 days a week
>Still living with each other
>She is making herself available to other men
>Kids are still too young to understand
I'm not going to be a pussy here and cry like a little bitch. Yes I'm upset about it. But I also need to take care of myself. I love my kids and I don't want to lose a good partner/friend. I need some advice on how to get myself over this and get myself back out there and talking to women again.
god damnit dude. why haven't you gotten married in the first place?
for fucks sale, you are a family! grab her and drag her to counseling. you two can't just give up on this like that. fucking put some work in. show some dedication. make this work
>>17877539
>making herself available to other men when you're still together
>good friend/partner
What
>>17877542
That's the tragic part. She has depression, and constantly isn't motivated in doing anything unless I push her. Sometimes to her limits and she becomes hostile or just shuts down and gives up. I can't say I'm perfect either because I get angry when I've made plans. I've been the only one who was planning our dates, calling people to watch our girls, making sure we are not disturbed to just have private time. I put effort into doing what she wants and interact in conversations. I've tried but a relationship can't be one sided.
>>17877553
We've been together for a while. So to me she's a good friend. Can't really say about good partner at this point.
I feel like I've have wasted 7 years being in this relationship.