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>move for school >don't have social media >don't

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>move for school
>don't have social media
>don't talk much to old friends
>always been bad at taking initiative, don't want to look like I need them
>home on visit now
>bored, nothing to do
Should I contact someone? I haven't kept up with them at all.
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pls respond
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no. unless u know some hot girls and have some pot to smoke, then ask them if they wanna come over for netflix and blaze.
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>>17876975
Only an ex-kind-of-girlfriend that I don't really speak with and girls I've met around but don't really have any sort of friendship with (don't have numbers)
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>>17876895

make new frienders
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>>17877003
Sounds like a lot of effort for a few weeks visit.

Would you think it's weird if someone you don't talk to much suddenly called you up? Would doing that make me look gay?
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>>17877011

>Would doing that make me look gay?

no. it just makes you look like you want to hang out. dont worry about what other people think of what you do so much. its a waste of time.
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>>17877043
Yes, I'm not a very open person. I know it's a problem and I'm trying to get better.
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>>17877055
what would drive a person to want to open up to another?
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>>17877055

been there and let me tell you son, the only thing, and i mean the ONLY thing that you need to change is your perspective.

you, like me as a kid, probably spend a good chunk of your life worrying what other people thought and trying to modulate your behavior to be appropriate. its not worth it. go on an experiment and live for a little while without caring. once you get the hang of it, its pretty easy, and there are few downsides and a TON of upsides.
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Sometimes, my good buds from high school (the ones who moved away for work or school) come into town and hit me up. It was always fun.

I'd say go for it.
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>>17877109
>>17877091
Guess it's best to do just do what I want to, thanks lads.
>>17877090
It generally makes life more enjoyable and makes it easier to make friends I've found, I do have trouble with what I perceive to be "weak" behavior in myself.
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>>17877055
You have social anxiety. I do too. I haven't figured out how to fix the lifelong accumulation of crappy habits associated with it yet, but maybe one of the things I try might eventually help before I end up impoverished or suicidal.
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