I grew up with porn, I'm 23 now and I've slept with two different people, one being very hot, the other was a drunken hook up.
I still prefer my hand.
Should I get help or just accept no one will be able to pleasure me as well as I can?
I also don't want kids, so I'm not really worried about waking up one day without my dick working.
From my understanding too I'm also bombing my brain every time I masturbate, and maybe this is stopping me from finding productive hobbies? All I do is play video games and go to school/work.
>>17876825
Try not watching porn for a month and being in a relationship with someone you love before sexing them and see if it works
If it doesn't you've used a month to finally solved a problem that's going to affect your entire life
>>17876825
Two different people isn't exactly a large sample size. You'll eventually meet someone who can fuck you better than you can fuck yourself. Also keep in mind that sometimes jacking it is just more satisfying, probably because it's nice to have a guilt-free orgasm without social interaction.
Are you with your partners long enough for them to get used to your body and what you like?
Masturbation is always going to start out better. You know what you like, you know what you want. And if all you wanna do is get off, then masturbation is great.
When you're having sex, it takes time for both of you to learn what the other person likes and wants. But once you get comfortable and familiar, it can get a lot more fun and intense, and more than just a quick orgasm.
>>17876825
did you have sex with a condom on? cuz condom sex is not real sex if you are desensitized. and thats okay. it just means fewer options.
i prefer my hand usually but sometimes something warm wet and tight is all thats gonn do it. never cum from oral though.
if you want to test your productivity consider only masturbating in the half hour before bed. see if that makes other activities magically happen. but htey wont unless you schedule it out and make a real plan FYI
>>17876825
Define, "grew up with porn."