>Grinding charisma as well as strength >The way to learn

Ego only gets in the way.

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>>17873215
that might be true
but its not like I can help feeling bad after getting rejected...

also think about getting rejected 2000 times! Man, idk why I feel that is terrifying.

(THe reason behind this method is so that you will see patterns in social interactions which will thus make you better at them)

>>17873213
Well part of the issue is that if you didn't care, this would all be 100% easier. The other half is understanding social norms and subjects.

That's really all there is to it. Unfortunately, the point of talking to all those women is to get you to a point where you don't care but have also gathered what the social norms and conversation topics are.

For instance, where I live, drinking and hiking and doing things outdoors is a big thing and talking about those things will get 99% of girls interested in you. The real hard part is when you figure all that out and then understand that you don't give a shit about most of it. Then you have to figure out how to follow your ideals and be happy while also being able to mesh with the rest of the population.

Good luck when you get to that part. it's a real bitch.

>>17873239
What you CAN help is how you let your feels affect your behaviour.

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Pic related, how to see past your ego and see your Self. Make friends with that, and you'll remember the times you got a yes' to a date more than the no's and even the times you asked.

>>17873213
>afraid that I might get rejected
>might
It's silly to be afraid. After all, with that many tries it's pretty much certain that you will get rejected at some point. Try to just not think about it too much, and after the first 100 rejections just tell yourself "i've already been rejected 100 times one more won't matter"