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> 32 years old, average looking guy.
> was alone since baby. so, am alone for a very very long time.
> mid-level social anxiety
> have a nice job, earning enough to live a normal life.
> enjoying the life as much as possible.
> couple hobbies like photography, and playing electro guitar.
> no girlfriends so far.
> total 8 dates.
> sex is meh. last two weeks, two times only. for last 6 months, two times only.
> tinder; very few matches and when i say hi, unmatched quickly.
> happn; same like tinder. after hi, getting blocked.
> trying to understand what's wrong with me but couldn't find it either. i started to blame myself like i'm too ugly, loser, don't know how to talk with a girl etc.
you may heard above a lot and sorry for repeating the same things. i'm having a depression since one week, and i started to believe nothing is going to happen in my life nor will have a girlfriend. is there any fucking magic wand that will help? seriously. i feel like i stuck on a fucking coffin and can't breath anymore. why like anybody else, i cannot get a girlfriend? i really started to believe i'm too fucking ugly and wanna die.
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Never start a conversation with hi. Women on dating sites get hundred of a messages from guys even avg and lower girls get more matches and messages in a day than a guy will get in a month. You have to make yourself stand out from the crowd of millions of thirsty men trying to get their dicks wet. I usully start tinder convos by asking if the girl has instagram. This makes her check her insta as well as look at mine . Now your insta needs to a lot of top less photos of you looking ripped as hell and hanging out with friends if you have a dog get them in the shots but don't make them the focus of the pics.I hope this helps
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>>17865748
thanks man. i don't have an insta. i do have a great photography portfolio but really, insta? come on.
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>>17865707
Don't think too much of it anon the problem is not you that's how girls on those sites usually act. You have nice interests try to match with a girl who might share those so you can actually have a decent Convo. You wouldn't wanna deal with any basic bitch anyway
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>>17865789
I don't make the trends I just follow the rivers current I personally think all social media is retarded but if it gets me pussy I'll play the game
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don't sex on the first date
put yourself into more situations that put you around girls irl and get to know them the regular way, online dating is shit experience for majority of guys
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>>17865803
i heard you bro but when? 32 years and getting older. there's literally no match which was a fuck yes. none. and when this girl who will make a decent convo will appear? trying to not make a overthinking but yeah time to time losing my mind.
>>17865808
fair enough. my expectation is having a girlfriend. i think i can handle getting pussy. even i can pay for a high level escort if it's really related to pussy.
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>>17865825
good idea. no friends that can pull me into groups where i can meet with girls either.
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>>17865844
Them maybe instead of chasing sluts on tinder look for sites like Okcupid where you could find a relationship?
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