How do I enjoy pubbing?
For example for context I had a company dinner the other day. I had a lot of fun up to the part where we just had drinks and talked about bullshit on the table, but then we went out pubbing and dancing and I got bored as shit and just went home.
I just don't get the fun in being on a super crowded space, being mostly unable to talk and I don't like dancing either.
How do I learn enjoy it?
You don't . Your smart enough to see that it's not enjoyable so you can't just force your self to be a sheep like everyone else .
Just find some groups to pug with or get in to the competitive scene, you dont need to always play with randoms, breh.
>>17863416
Listen to this guy, he's a party animal.
>>17863294
>How do I learn enjoy it?
You don't, but the most important thing is not to buy into this >>17863416 mentality and start acting like a pretentious faggot just because you don't enjoy dancing and crowded places.
There's nothing wrong with not liking it, there's nothing wrong with liking it. If anyone judges you for it then they're not the kind of people you should hang out with. The only way you can really fuck this up is to start acting like you're smarter or better than them just because you all don't share the same interests.
Some people don't like hanging out in crowded places. Some people don't like hanging out in small, intimate settings. NO ONE likes a judgmental prick with a superiority complex.
>>17863518
This
>>17863294
You either enjoy it or you don't.
Back when o started going to clubs I immediately loved it.
Getting drunk, dancing to music and hooking up with club sluts was the best thing I ever experienced.
If you don't like that, that's it. Nothing more to it.
It's like forcing yourself to enjoy a popular album you just don't like
>>17863294
You sound less like the club party type and more like the billiards hall type. You might have more fun in a place like that more of a relaxed atmosphere but still active enough to be engaging