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>On fake facebook account >See girl I went to school with

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>On fake facebook account
>See girl I went to school with
>Know her for almost entirety of my life
>Just graduated a year and a half ago
>She had been dating some guy throughout her teen years
>He just got her pregnant
>She's about to turn 20, and she works at Dominoes
>See various other pictures on her profile
>She's doing these cute photographs and putting their fleeting, almost delusional love on display
>Realize she has just given herself the Doctor's haircut of life

I'm glad I never went outside and experienced my teenage years /r9k/. I'm not even filled with regret because of how fucked I've seen the lives of others become. I mean, I'm 20 myself and a KV, but I only see the positive side of this. I dodged the bullet called lower middle-class american life.

Is my soundness of mind unfounded? Should I be upset that I "wasted" my adolescence? I grew up in a predominantly lower-class area. I have a belief I would have been wiped away with the rest of the people that lived there if I were out and about. I'm still living with my parents, but I've transitioned into a life of total isolation. I really couldn't be more content.

Is there anything wrong?
I see the world, and I can't help but feel it's more inclined to harm me than to bring me happiness.
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>>17863184
If you went out and lived that life you would have thought this about the ones that stay inside

Who's to say who's wrong and who's right

The fact that you see the world as only a place that can bring you down is a harmful philosophy tho
Signifies a lack of trust and probably some rooted in some childhood issue
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In fact, your parents are also a part of the world, and although they might not say it, they are ashamed and confused as to why you're unable to seize your own life.

If you can live with that indignity and the indignity of being a net loss to everyone you meet, I guess you're good to go.
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>>17863198
I've seen too much of it in my daily life as a carpenter due to my father. I've seen the attitudes of various ethnic groups and social castes. People have died, and I've been around for the fallout.

I don't see interaction with others as a beneficial thing.

You see what they desire, and you see the wheels of the national economy. They will hurt you if it serves their own self-interest. I would likely do the same.
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You're absolutely right, right now. But you will get lonely.
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>>17863237
The fluidity of the future will decide this.
I likely won't remember how I felt when I was 20 when I'm 30.

I feared that I would regret burning through my teen years, but now that they're over, I don't care.

I may get lonely, and I may be perfectly fine as I am.
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>>17863184
>I really couldn't be more content.
Then you wouldn't stalk people on your fake fb account and tell 4chains how content you are.

Sour grapes and all.
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>>17863258
Is curiosity to be condemned?
I included contentment as it's a major variable in a person's life.
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If you're okay with being alone, that's fine - but if you're going to sit there and pretend it's better to be locked up in your room than to go out and experience love and friendship and everything that comes with it, that's just delusional. Not all relationships end up with unplanned pregnancy and poverty.
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>>17863265
They don't all do, but you open the door.
I get my fill of life from conversations on 4chan.

I've no real problems in life. That's seemingly a total abnormality.
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>>17863264
Sounds like quite an effort for pure curiosity, besides what's with the steps afterwards? Does curiosity explain your judgemental bullshit? How about actually making a post, wanting to share your uhh.. findings with others but being forced to limit yourself to Internet people? Mentioning couple times over how content you are as if you're trying to convince yourself? Come on, anon.
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Her bad choices in life don't make your any less worth. You're just looking for an excuse to justify your failures. You say you dodged being an average lower middle-class american, but the price for it is being the average living with parents basement dweller virgin. I'd say you're envy that she's happy and you're not, otherwise why would you be stalking people and ranting aloud about how their lifes suck?

You just want validation.
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>>17863270

You say that, but the schadenfreude you feel from your old classmate's misfortune suggests otherwise..
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>>17863279
I would be forced to limit myself to random strangers on the internet regardless. I can't divulge the fact that I'm spying on the lives of others. It's incredibly enjoyable for me.

I don't see what I've posted as judgmental. They've blown their own future out of the water by having a child at such a young age while devoid of financial success. Failure is hurtling at the speed of a bullet. It's not hard to see it coming.

I've already told you why I've chosen to inform people that I'm content.

You're digging too deeply into what I've laid down, and now, you're jumping at shadows on walls.
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>>17863292
>I don't see what I've posted as judgmental. They've blown their own future out of the water by having a child at such a young age while devoid of financial success. Failure is hurtling at the speed of a bullet. It's not hard to see it coming.

If you can't see why you're the loser in this situation, then you must completely lack any self awareness.

This is the result of undersocialized kids: they have no idea why everyone considers them weird/stupid. OP is a perfect example
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>>17863283
She has slated everything for hell.
She's effectively throwing away her own happiness and contentment because she ran with the world.

I've done the opposite, and I'm living a nice life.

I'm left wondering if I should be upset that I'm not experiencing reality.
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>>17863292
>be you
>incredibly enjoyed in spying other people lives
>thinks a couple is a failure in life just because you disagree with their choices
>not judgeamental at all
>muh redpilled

You're sad and shallow as a puddle and it shows so clearly that everyone caught it in the OP
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>>17863300
It's her choice, and she's happy with it
Apparently despite all your claims you're not happy with yours, given that you keep questioning them
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>>17863305
The extent of my disagreement is not be scoffed at.

It's not negligible. No one is educated. They'll soon be living through extreme poverty, and they're bringing a child into the world.

It's a ticking time bomb. The only solution is child-murder.
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>>17863307
I don't believe questioning your own stability is a sign of a brittle foundation. I see it as beneficial. It's more like swinging a sledge hammer to see if it will break.
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>>17863292
>I would be forced to limit myself to random strangers on the internet regardless.
Not really, no.

>It's incredibly enjoyable for me.
That's given when you cut off any other potential source of joy out of your life.

>I don't see what I've posted as judgmental.
Well, lack of self awareness is typical for basement dwellers. No surprises here.

>Failure is hurtling at the speed of a bullet. It's not hard to see it coming.
Given your expertise in failure this would almost hold water, if you also had any expertise in life.

>I've already told you why I've chosen to inform people that I'm content.
You mentioned it in almost every sentence, anon. That goes beyond informing others.

>You're digging too deeply into what I've laid down
Not at all. Your posts are too transparent for that.
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>>17863309
You clearly don't know what extreme poverty is
Some people are perfectly happy living in suburbs with their loved ones and driving old cars to entry-level jobs, just as you allegedly are enjoying stalking people and being a kv
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>>17863314
You're so unsure of your foundations that you're giving the sledgehammer to us anons for fear of not hitting them hard enough. If you were so sure of them, you'd internalize this test, pass with flying colors and go on with your life, instead of asking (on /adv/ nonetheless) if you're right in being happy judging other peoples lives based solely on their facebook posts
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>>17863329
I won't lie.
It's more fun/challenging for me to argue with strangers that hold extremely different perspectives.

I don't deem myself judgmental. I see what will break loose, and I can't help but think about why things are the way they are.

>>17863321
I don't know what extreme poverty is, and I never will.

>>17863315
You're saying my posts are transparent, yet you're affirming your own judgment that you've imparted on a total stranger.
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>>17863350
But anon, I am simply pointing out the obvious, things you either already said or know yourself or would notice if you took a moment with self reflection. You're the one doing the reaffirming with every additional post you make.
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>>17863371
Such certainty is arrogance, and it gives way to misbeliefs.
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OP you're like a prison inmate saying "Freedom is overrated.. you could be hit by a car!"
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>>17863388
Look who's talking. For someone who claims to be of sound mind, you're unwilling to grapple with posts like >>17863201, >>17863284, and the fact that your inability to empathize or react to the emotions of other people is clearly a sign of mental shortcomings.

Do you truly believe your parents aren't ashamed of you?
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>>17863388
I wouldn't call certainty based on facts arrogance. You're basically the equivalent of a guy who talks about his love to suck dicks, the glorious taste of balls and how awesome a wiener in your ass feels, while finishing it with "I am totally not gay."
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>>17863407
I believe there's such a disconnect between me and my parents that they don't care and see the fact that I've a job and can drive as good enough.

There's no shame in my familial life.

>>17863284
I don't derive pleasure from their pain. I simply stand on the sidelines and watch.

There are so many presumptions in the questions you've linked. I didn't note them as worthy as discussion.
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>>17863417
>Circular reasoning
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>>17863426
>I don't derive pleasure from their pain.

>I'm glad I never went outside and experienced my teenage years /r9k/. I'm not even filled with regret because of how fucked I've seen the lives of others become.

Once again demonstrating a total lack of self awareness.
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>>17863426
There you go again. What "you believe" isn't necessarily what is. You're utterly blind to the feelings of other people, so you substitute those with what "you believe": otherwise known as fiction. We can see by this very thread that you're completely unable to relate to other human beings, even your own family. That's going beyond the territory of mental shortcomings and into the territory of mental disability.
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>>17863438
Being grateful I didn't make the same mistakes due to my isolation isn't the same as being happy that it has happened to those people.

I'm glad I've seen it cut-down another person instead of experiencing it first hand.
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>>17863432
>g-guise I am totally not gay
>I just told you, I watch gay porn all the time out of curiosity!
>yes, I really enjoy it but not because I am gay...
>you are wrong and reading too much into my post, I am absolutely not gay, why don't you believe how not gay I am?
>...this is a godly shaped penis, I'd love to taste it, no homo
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>>17863394
This post is underrated
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>>17863447
>Being grateful I didn't make the same mistakes due to my isolation isn't the same as being happy that it has happened to those people.

If you were honest with yourself, you would be able to see that their "misfortune" (in your eyes, not theirs) pleases you because it gives you a way to validate your isolation. Your way of coping with your own misery is to congratulate yourself that it could be worse.
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>>17863442
You're absolutely right.
I rely totally on the theory of evolution to tell what people want.

Also, I keep hitting "Aspergers" on autism tests on the internet. I guess this is what it is.
I've never really had a thread that put me under a micro-scope.
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>>17863456
I believe so, but it really could be worse.
My life as it currently is is ok. I don't believe I should strive beyond just being content.
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