how do you truly assess whether or not you are in a relationship

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>>17860162
If you ask this question, then you're the latter type.

>>17860170
Fpbp

>>17860170
whats the logic behind this answer?

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>>17860208
You don't know if a relationship makes you unhappy because that relationship isn't marked by palpable spikes / decreases in unhappiness, which means that unhappiness is your standard state of being and the relationship neither improves it nor makes it worse by a lot.

Pic-related will help u figure it out.

>>17860236
i understand your picture.
but i'd say my situation feels more like a spike upwards at the start of the relationship, but now i am back to being unhappy. the question is, am i back to unhappy because of the relationship or is this my default happiness to which i will always return?

this is the first relationship i've ever had. the underlying decision i have to make is to end it (possibly opening resulting in crushing regret that will haunt me forever) and try and pursue happiness elsewhere or just continue as i am.

>>17860302
then it was just a temporary spike and you're now at an all-time low that will get even lower if you break up

you're the 3rd kind - generally unhappy with tendencies to become even unhappier

sucks2bu famalam

>>17860324
kill me

>>17860497
why'd you just let this guy talk in overly general terms to you and then tell you you're at an all-time low? he called you famalam

stop conversing with the overtly mentally ill


but there is a good point in there. if unhappiness is your default state, don't blame the relationship. if the relationship makes you noticeably more unhappy, consider ending it.

what's the actual problem here?