Long story short? I got a gf and I'm possibly going to sex

Don't stress so much about that, if you cum quickly it's not a big deal. Sex doesn't automatically end when you shoot your goo. The goal is that you each get off and have a good time. If it makes you go soft after you cum just continue with your hands, your tongue, or use a toy. Hell you could even have her finger herself to get you hard again.

Just remember rule 1, real sex isn't porn, so drop any of those expectations.

>>17857881
Best advice is to just get drunk, but not too much drunk. That, and be calm.

Respiration is also a key. If you feel youre near cumming and don't want to, slow the rythm or stop if necessary, and stop breathing until you can control your edge.

My first time ended with me finding out it's really difficult to finish when you have sex with someone who's first time is also with you. It'll feel really good, but since it's your first time, neither of you will really know how to properly please eachother, so just go with the motions and remember to not be so stressed, it'll just make the experience suck.

Don't sweat it. Your first time will probably suck. Just keep practicing.

>>17858809
Didnt finish. Took me about 6-8 months in to start finishing from just sex itself.

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>>17858922
>Your first time will probably suck.
and when it does you'll realize just how much of a meme losing your virginity just to lose it actually is

sex is only better than masturbation when you're doing it with someone you actually care about and want them to get enjoyment out of it too. If its just with some random slut you'd be better off jacking it to whatever sick filth happens to be your fetish in the comfort of your room.