In all of my sexual encounters i didn't feel anything at

>>17857672

cndoms or bareback?

>>17857674
I've done both

>>17857672
Were you intoxicated? Alcohol/drugs?

>>17857718
nope

>>17857731
Then your either homosexual in strong denial or depressed.

>>17857672
CUT-FAGS BTFO !

How often do you masturbate?

If it's more than once a week, there's your problem.

>>17857867
High stress life, so yeah i whack it a lot

I'm cut and sex is great as long as I don't jack it too much. Depression hurts too.

>>17857880


That's funny you say that, because masturbating too often will actually make your life much more difficult.

One cum every 4-5 days and no porn. Your happiness will quadruple.

>>17857672
Happened to me. Drunk. Sober. Blow jobs. Couldn't finish.
I think my problem, and yours, is called idiosyncratic madturbatory style.
Look it up, basically the way you're jerking is way different than sex.
I think that's why I can't finish. Also I'm prefer little girls over college girls but that's just me.

>>17857867
You can jerk it off as often as you want (well, withing certain limits), just as long as your not watching porn.

>>17857923

Wrong.

You can edge as much as you want, but you can't CUM as much as you want.

It takes a lot out of your body to produce an ejaculation. If you aren't ejaculating more than once every 4-5 days, no problem. But if you're fapping daily, you'll notice:

>smaller loads
>Less energy. harder to get out of bed in the morning.
>Feel anxious when around pretty girls, less motivated to go up to them.
>Days at work go by slower, body feels weaker.
>less frequent erections
>Weaker erections
>Less ambition to pursue hobbies, such as playing guitar.


Miles Davis was actually an avid nofapper. He would never, ever, cum before a show. Not even the night before a show, because he knew the power of holding in your cum.

>>17857892
tips for stopping then?

>>17857923
Porn honestly does fuck up your head doesn't it

>>17857950
>mfw this describes everything I hate about myself

>>17857959

Tips for stopping porn use? Just stop, lol. Seriously, it's way easier than you think.

Remember, it's FINE to fap, just limit how often to actually ejaculate to once every 4-5 days. Some people need 4 days, some need 5, just don't exceed more than one cum per 4 days.

When you fap, use your imagination and use a lube. You can even use olive oil or coconut oil, they work great. Edge for 10-15 minutes, try to reach a 9/10 at least three times. By the time you blow your load, BOOOM. Huge fucking orgasm, and the edging actually causes "non-ejaculatory orgasms" or Multi-orgasms. If you edge properly, stop right before climax, take a deeeeep breath, you'll feel the sexual energy go from your dick all up to your body and brain. It's incredible.

This also trains you to last long in bed.

Once you get used to fapping without porn, porn is nothing to you. It's trash, a waste of energy.

And yes, porn rewires your brain and can lead to problems in bed with real women. Cut it out of your life now.

Since you didn't cum in the past 4 days, you will feel energized and refreshed after you bust a nut. You won't feel tired and apathetic, but actually focused and eager.

By the 4th day of no fapping, I'm so overwhelmed with my extra sexual energy that I feel a huge sense of clarity and calm after I cum. The next day I have no problem getting out of bed, because I have so much sexual energy that one fap made almost no difference. It just took the edge off.

One cum per 4-5 days is recommended for men 18-30. As you get older, you have to cum less and less often to maintain a strong libido. It's why so many old men can't get it up, they cum too often.

In a book I read called The Multi Orgasmic Man Sex Secrets Every man Should know, it said men in their 60s should never ejaculate, because it may cause an early death. May explain why women live longer..

>>17857981
So could everything I've been struggling with all this time simply of stemmed from this?

>>17857992

Yep. Sounds like you just woke up from the Matrix.

Jizz is your life force. Don't waste it. Sometimes if I'm hooking up with a Tinder girl, I won't even bust a nut if I have a date with another girl lined up the next night and I came already too recently..

Avoid fertility supplements. They give you massive loads, but they don't affect libido much. They are pretty fucking hilarious, though. The past few times I took them were with Tinder hook ups, and they all had the same exact face of shock after I blew a load in their mouth. Makes your loads about 20-30ml big.

Right now it's cold as fuck in my state (CT) so I've been saving my energy, avoiding hook ups. I feel like during the summer I can fuck every day, but in the winter I just want to fucking chill out and stay cozy after work.

The key to healthy libido is limiting ejaculation, edging in between masturbation days, proper diet, exercise a few times a week, kegel exercises, avoiding sugar, avoid adderall and other dick shrinking drugs, drink lots of water, take your vitamins, and be proactive about fixing your sexual in-frequencies. The internet has every thing you need to know about sex, if you feel there's something you want to improve just do some research.

>>17857950
That's exactly what you shouldn't do; watching hours of porn and prolonging your cum.
It makes your brain used to what it's seeing in porn, thus your having hard time getting it up with a real woman.

Masturbation in itself is quite healthful, keeps your pipes clean, so to say. But when you do it, use your imagination, don't waste your time on watching other guys bang girls.

>>17858024
>proper diet, exercise a few times a week,

One day

>avoiding sugar,

ONE DAY

>>17857880

Its stress buddy. That and masturbating too much but these NoFap clowns mistake the symptoms for the cause.

You are anxious and stressed and thus you feel compelled to masturbate more. Building willpower to focus on not masturbating distracts your mind from the things in your life that are stressing you because it takes tremendous mental capital to maintain that willpower.

I started taking buspirone from my doctor and it changed my life.

>>17857992

No. This is junk science.

Edging from porn can desensitize you but it is all reversible.

A healthy man with proper levels of testosterone is not diminished by cumming frequently. Testosterone drops temporarily for like an hour then quickly bounces back. Testosterone climbs slowly and slightly for several days of no cumming but levels off and starts dropping again after too long.

It is all junk science and NoFap is nothing but placebo.