>at girlfriends place we're making out and stuff she

>>17857661
It shouldn't hurt until you break her hymen and then only for a little bit. Probably an infection or some other health issue. Tell her to see a doctor.

>>17857661
Is she on the pill?
That happened with my girlfriend when she was.
If not, try lube.

>>17857695
I ate her out and my upper lip is burning a little. Is that a sign of infection?

>>17857700
I didnt have lube and I tried spitting. What lube would you recommend. She wasn't on the pill

>>17857661
You got to go slow my man. You cant just shove your dick inside her. You started doing good, make her wet, then tease her, then cover your finger with her fluids and start going in slowly. Continue fingering her slowly then take one finger out and do the same with another finger. So in the end both fingers are wet, then try inserting both. After that finger her with both fingers for a while. Then when shes beggin go for it but slowly. The first time always hurts for them, so go slow.

>>17857709
Also dont spit, I know its normal in porn but in real life girls dont actually find it attractive or enjoyable.

>>17857716
she asked me to spit

>>17857712
When I was going slow she told me I was going too slow. She enjoys pain i think. its confusing because she asked me to slap her, pull her hair, choke her, bite her nipples as hard as I could, bite her neck and she suggested I buy nipple clamps for next time

>>17857732
Then you have a weird case. I dont know what to tell you rather than shove it in next time. If shes asking you to be rough but gets mad when you actually cause her pain then something is wrong.