I am a woman who has trouble having orgasm from just sex. I can

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>>17855564
>How about buying a vibrator to use while having sex, good or bad? Could using a vibrator make it even harder to orgasm from sex in the future? I don't really mind, I'd rather have orgasms now

About 50% of women can only cum from clitoral stimulation so you're not abnormal, if anything your be is a champ for fucking it out of you

Porn abstinence could help
Vibrator during sex will help

You will definitely cum with a vibrator and penetration, but you're clit can become desensitized over time through a lot of use but a week vibrator break should solve that

A tertiary option is the position in pic related, it focuses on clit stimulation during penetration by rubbing the male pubic bone into the clit with each thrust
Look it up for more info to see if it's for you

>>17855564
Maybe masturbate less and go into more forceful positions, if that makes any sense.

Like the one where he picks you up and you're both embracing each other or something.

I dunno, read the Karmasutra or something.

>>17855564
No, some women simply don't from vaginal penetration. In fact, most don't. If your boyfriend doesn't mind eating you out (most men shouldn't, unless you smell or something), just go with that.

It's perfectly normal, so do what makes you cum and enjoy masturbation, I don't think we work like men do in that we get super hooked on porn and physically can't do it anymore.

>>17855587
That position does feel great. Maybe if he could fuck like a sybian and vibrate his penis at the same time.....

>>17855589
I don't masturbate often, maybe once a week alone and with my bf during sex or together for fun.

>>17855602
>Maybe if he could fuck like a sybian and vibrate his penis at the same time.....

This will be the first development in biotech to hit mass market, I guarantee it

>>17855593
Cool, never met or heard of a woman that can't cum from sex. Maybe some fake it. Bf is okay with it, he suggested a vibrator. I don't feel like it's something I need to achieve, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't, well then I have the vibrator and a guy who actually likes to eat me out.

>>17855602
>>17855607
When Deus Ex becomes a reality, that'll probably be one of the first things people get.

Till then, I suggest him taking Viagra and a monoamine oxidase inhibitor with chocolate.

I am not responsible for any bleeding, psychotic episodes, or hyperactivity as a result of that combo.

>>17855564
Obviously, you just need some good nice 9 inches. Worked for me.

>>17855709
This is a man

>>17855715
Am a woman.

>>17855718
Sigh, life of sexual inadequacy here I come

Just do positions where you can masturbate while being penetrated

Prone bone is great, you just put your hand on your clit and rub it out while the does his thing. The opposite (you on top and both belly up) also works, and you can add a vibrator too.

Also try edging or orgasm denial, make him lick you good and almost reach orgasm once or twice, and when you're about to cum, ask him for the D

Missionary can be good to, if his dick is not too long, just ask him to go all in, and then keep trying to go even further. This will rub your clit good. Going slower might also help. My gf loves hard and fast pounding, but it's more due to the kinkiness of being fucked hard. She comes the strongest when we make it slow but strong thrusts

>>17855709
Actually, I have a small vagina so big penises hurt. I am european so current bf has 15 cm dick and it's way better than my ex who had 20 cm dick.

>>17855791
Yeah that end sounds exactly like me. I almost came when he was fucking me slow but then I wanted it hard which didn't lead to orgasm. Thanks for really good advice!

Kind of related and doesnt deserve its own thread- new gf 'doesnt really masterbate' and while enjoys clitoral stimulation she doesnt come from it, only from vaginal penetration. Or so she says.

How normal is this? Ive had a few partners and all could only do it from clitoral/oral/vibrator etc and this is the first woman to even just want penetration penetration penetration.

>>17855801
What other men have told me; most girls have vaginal orgasms and also clitoral. So it doesn't seem common to not to have clitoral orgasms.

>>17855797

Slow takes a while longer but the build up is awesome. Sometimes we even stay completly stopped just making out and trying to avoid moving (protip: it's impossible), just feeling each other down there.

You on top can work wonders too. Not like cowgirl, just like missionary but with you on top. That way you can do whatever works to you.

And then when you finally start cumming from all the slow movement and buildup, that's when you accelerate and go crazy

>>17855814
Gaaaah can't wait to try that

>>17855808
She has stated she hadnt used a vibrator, or masterbated before besides insertion. She claims to come but it doesnt seem the same as other females Ive given clitoral based orgasms to.

Just confusing.

>>17855856

My gf wasn't even aware of what her clit was capable off before I gave her oral. She only masturbated with insertion too, ignoring it almost completly. I had to kinda "rewire" her, and now even though she still loves insertions, her clit is ultra sensitive and fun to play with.

That said, the internal structure of the clit is like a whisbone, with "legs" that go around the entrance. That might be a reason for her love for insertions, maybe she's just used to stimulate it that way, or have an overly sensitive G-spot. G-spot and clitoral orgasms are different, although there isn't a line or need to draw one between one and the other.

How long have you two been toghether? What have you tried on her? Vibrators are hell of a fun, just expose her clit and "force" her to withstand direct stimulation there, and her body will vibrate too

>>17855891
Six months, already introduced vibrators and toys and although she likes then she always wants to jump into insertion, and its more foreplay than her trying to achive anything.
Were both late 20s so its not like either of us havnt had past experiences, and Im unaware of how the vagina works. Honestly as Id never in ten plus years run into a female who even pretended to have vaginal orgasms I might just be over thinking it.

>>17855792
Thank god for small vaginas