What are the possible downsides to telling a girl i'm in love with her
If you have to think about it, don't do it. I have no information about your relationship or things between you so it's literally impossible for me to comment, but the chances are you just shouldn't do it. Hell, the chances are you don't even know her, you've just projected a lot of your own desire on to her and fallen in love with that, because it's easier to do that than love yourself.
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>>17854273
She pretty much owns you from that point on. Doesn't matter if she feels the same way, she'll always have it over you
Never tell someone you love her/him. It should be obvious if there is love. Pretty cold to make it known that way. Just think about this for a while
>>17854375
what do you do if they ask you to say it, or they say it first
>>17854273
she says no. thats about it without any other context.
Don't ever do that.
If a girl likes you, she'll tell you. If she wants you to be her Bf, she'll tell you.
Your job is to get her to fall in love with you, not tell her that you love her. What if you say I love you and she says that's nice?
Things could be going great and she may have been thinking I might say I love him soon, then you have to go and get all beta and ruin things for both of you.
Don't do it.
>>17854449
>women tell you they want you to be her bf
in amazon fairy tales maybe.