almost killed myself over the girl i dated for 3 years really

some people deal with stress like that, i personally prefer being single if big stuff is happening in my life.

but i dont know the details of your situation OP. take a day to feel like shit then move on, and take more days as needed such that it doesnt negatively impact your life too much

>>17852056
Get a dog for unconditional loyalty and companionship and a fleshlight for sexual urges, ignore women.
This is the ultimate solution - the sooner you get started the better, if you wish to avoid getting hurt and let down over and over again.

When you and your friend are both hurt and depressed, and lean on each other to heal, it makes things easier. You both feel less pain. You both get over it quicker. It's like putting a bandage over an emotional wound.

The problem lies in once that part of your relationship is no longer there. When it's time to, metaphorically discard the bandages. When you and she aren't the traumatized individuals you were when you first got together, it turns out that you fell for someone that no longer exists, and she as well..

Because you shared this emotional and amazing experience, you and she will probably be able to be friends for life. If she's a great girl then maybe you should consider if that can be enough.

>>17852069
Dogs only love you because you feed them, it's been scientifically proved.

>>17852117
and people only feel because of chemicals who gives a fuck?

>>17852117
also gee anon dogs love you when you're nice to them and do things for them just like people? who would have thought

>>17852117
It's true

>>17852056

That sucks man, but just think for a bit you were probably in a worse spot to begin with after you first break up and with this new girl you essentially used each other for support for a few months, now that she's left maybe just think of her coming into your life as a positive to get you back on your feet and your mind off your ex. This recent relationship (if you want to call it that) shouldn't be too hard to get over because it was reasonably short and worked because you both needed someone to lean on at the time.