So about 6 years into our marriage, my wife had an affair. After

I'm never fucking marrying.

>>17850069
They are already pretty different being raised in a household like this
That shit coming out won't change too much unless it's a big event

Source: raised in a broken home

>>17850076
>They are already pretty different being raised in a household like this

What do you mean by this?

>>17850069
God I hate people. It's a shame you both felt the need to reproduce.

>>17850085
>It's a shame you both felt the need to reproduce.

Do you shave with that edge?

>>17850082
You can believe you're hiding it all you want but kids pick up signs that shit ain't working right and it makes them feel shit
It's like 60% of marriages so it's fine not really different I suppose

>>17850094
People like you raising kids is no joke. It's the cause of a lot of societal problems.

>>17850069
do you get along with your wife? have you guys talked about this?

since you're saying she doesn't know about your flings, she might be under the impression you've forgiven her (lol)

>>17850152

We get along pretty well. No we haven't talked about this.

It will undermine their trust of you. it might even be unconsciously, but they will lose a lot of trust in you, no matter what age it happens.

My cousin's parents both cheated prior to their divorce and it is just something that lingers over everything. It will be absolutely better for your situation if they're adults when they find out, but it will still be there. And it might even make them poor spouses. Get out of your relationships now. Plan for a divorce once your kids are 18.

>>17850163
how recent was the affair?

>>17850169

It started around February and has been going on since. The other flings were never really for more than a month or two.

>>17850094
Nothing edgy about it, you two are clearly unfit.

>>17850069
kys

My cousin's parents cheated on each other but stayed together for the kids. They are cordial to each other. But you can tell the simmering resentment. My cousin's are quite simply , not gonna make it anywhere in life. Their parents spent too much time hiding affairs to take care of them. My cousin's think it's normal to have affairs and not love your partner in a marriage. Do you want your kids to think that? They can tell at the very least that you're not in love with mommy anymore.

>>17850082
I knew my dad was cheating on my mom for like 5 years and apparently, he had cheated on my mom with like 4-5 different women over like 20 years. Nobody told me it went that deep, but kids pick up on this shit more than you think.

>>17850319
>My cousin's think it's normal to have affairs and not love your partner in a marriage.
Of course they do. They got their genes from cheaters. They will be cheaters, too. How they feel about it intellectually isn't going to change that much, particularly if female; women can rationalize anything.

>>17850617
So if they have cheating genes from dad who got his cheating genes from gramps, does that mean I have the cheating gene too? And all my kids? I've never cheated in my life. Also my cousins are both guys too.

>>17850069
Human are not monogamous by nature, monogamy is only dictated by culture/society. It's healthier both for you if you have an affair.

>these things come out eventually
they don't if you're careful enough (get rid of every digital trace btw, if you use WhatsApp or else, chatlogs should be clean enough for you to show your wife)

Don't waste any thought on morals, she broke her oath.

As long as you're confident enough to be able to maintain the secret (and your affair aswell), I'd just tell you to go on with it.

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omg stopped at decided not.
never , your torturing your kids and your self while she sleeps with whoever she wants now you empowered her to keep on it.
leave the whore.
you stupid fuck.
also I have had 2 wives first was just like yours our son is now 3.
never stay for kids, you pawn. cuck.

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>>17850617
>genes from cheaters
go kill yourself cunt

>>17850319
>My cousin's think it's normal to have affairs and not love your partner in a marriage.
sounds like france and half of latin america

Cuck xD