Okay there's this guy I've been talking to and we live

>>17849200
He wants to fuck you

My advice is that you should learn to better formulate your questions so that others can provide you with relevant advice.

As it stands your question is more of statement and there's no answer to it. What you should say depends on how you feel, which you didn't really make clear. Either say you want to fuck him or that he should slow down until you've met in person. I hope this helps but I have no idea if it will because you're not quite sure how to post questions I guess?

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>>17849254
Reeeeeee

>>17849261
Oh, sorry about that.
I guess what I mean to ask is, if I should be careful about this guy I'm not sure if he just wants to get in my pants or not. He seems to be genuine at times though which throws me off.

>>17849296

My personal opinion is that you should almost always just assume he only wants in your pants, unless proven otherwise, and ESPECIALLY if it's an internet relationship where you haven't met in person yet. You have never even seen him and have no idea about your personal compatibility. Maybe you've sent each other pics, maybe nudes even, but that isn't the same as seeing someone's posture in real life and seeing how he treats you in person. It is easy to be alpha as fuck on the internet, for example, or to pretend you care about someone (literally just takes bullshit "hey sweetheart how are you? i miss u, lets cuddle <3" messages, that's like 6 seconds to write).

On the other hand if you do go meet him he will 100% assume (with good reason) that you want to fuck. Have you at least been speaking to him on the phone? That's better than nothing for figuring out what he's like.

tl;dr don't make a decision unless you have met him, and always be careful with internet people

>>17849296
Are you fucking stupid of course he wants to get in your pants what do you expect from online dating

>>17849296
>>17849254

>>17849321
Haven't sent nudes but he always asks for selfies. We haven't spoken on the phone yet but I was considering it. Now I feel like I should just drop him.
You're right I feel pretty stupid for being this naive :/
Not to mention the fact that when we were talking about a meet up he wanted to get a room for us to "hang out in" for the day "so we wouldn't have to be outside"
Shiiiiiit I thought I could have a chance at actually meeting someone genuine. Sorry that I had to make a post about this when maybe I could have just thought this through. I don't have much experience in the dating world so I don't have much confidence in myself.

>>17849200
he cray if you have not met him online first damn

>>17849373
>Not to mention the fact that when we were talking about a meet up he wanted to get a room for us to "hang out in" for the day "so we wouldn't have to be outside"

kek. Well I mean to be fair it's winter right now in many places, so I guess I can see how you missed how obvious this is ("yeah outside sucks!"), but still... kek.

Best of luck in the future OP but keep in mind that online dating is basically someone deciding how to treat you based solely on some photographs of you and some (almost certainly generic) short messages between you. It's not a real representation of what it will be like between you. It's literally "would I fuck her? yes/no, if yes has she said any really dumb shit yet that made me want to not fuck her, yes/no" and that's basically the entirety of online dating.

>>17849391
Thanks for the insight anon, I appreciate it. I'll be more careful in the future.