/adv/, Have you had any issues with performance anxiety and

Tell her that the Feng Shui is off.

>>17848690
I guess that's it but I feel like there's more to it, the last couple of nights I've been going over there and I feel it might drag over to my house

>>17848687
Try going slower
Build it up
Kiss her, tease her, play with her

I mean really fucking slow like you'll fuck her in an hour up until then no D in the V besides dickhead to clit rubbing

>>17848765
Definitely going to do that, thanks

I had this problem when I started taking anxiety medicine, and this is valuable advice:

>>17848765

Don't rush to penetration. Try some tease and denial. Ask her to do whatever gets your dick hard, like a handjob or blowjob, stuff that you can just relax and build up to. Then just fuck her when you're about to cum.

Of course, make her cum a couple of times to avoid making her frustrated. Tease her with your dick, put just a bit of the head but don't penetrate, make her crave for it. And only really penetrate when you're about to cum, when it's 100% granted.

This will gradually build up your confidence that you're still capable of doing it, and you'll be able to start penetration earlier and earlier until you normalize it.

>>17848902
Only issue is that I've always historically penetrated until orgasm, for me to build up to the edge and to just cum seconds after would be pretty lackluster. Thanks for the tips though, I just need to relax a little bit

>>17849184

I know how you feel because, like I said, I've been there too. It's just temporary until you get your confidence back. Take that as a forced opportunity to try non-penetrative stuff you wouldn't otherwise

Hang tight and you'll be back in no time

>>17848687

I was dating a girl that at her home was always taking care of her dog.

No morning sex, just take the dog to the park.

I hated that and her noisy street.

>>17849334
Thanks man I really appreciate the words