How does everyone overcome the feelings of futility when hanging

>>17846457
Why does it matter if you have a good time? Your entire life won't amount to anything, in 200 years nobody will remember that you even existed, give it couple billion years and the earth will be gone. So what?

>>17846476
I just don't know how to enjoy it unless I'm attracted to them, never have

>>17846508

>attracted to them

alright you need to explain a little bit more whats going on here.

>>17846457
start amounting to something. get a hobby, a skill, a job, go to school. Do something productive and you'll feel better. you will never stop comparing yourself to others though. My dad does it, my friends do it, I still do it and I like my life. Just remembered everyone is going through their own struggles

>>17846457
Get friends that are better than you

>>17846511
Platonic relationships feel like a boring waste of time

>>17846528
While this is a great idea in theory ... why would they hang with someone worse? That's like telling some neet neckbeard to upgrade from a fuck pillow to some 10/10 girl.

>>17846523
I already make 6 figures and work 50 hours a week and study for 10 tho

>>17846553
again, everyone still does it. Its natural to look at somebody else life and only see the high lights because thats all they want you to see

>>17846537
Mentoring is rewarding for both parties involved
They like to take people that they see Simalar to them and teach them their ways