Is there a non-creepy, non-predatory way to be attracted to/turned

>>17842647
It's called being dominant it's 100% normal

>>17843289
find a masochist with the right weaknesses and get into bdsm

>>17842647
>Asking for a friend.
I hate this meme

Idk if it's creepy or predatory or whatever, but if you mean "can I have romantic success despite getting off to helplessness?" yes, you can.

My partner finds it hot that I'm a trauma case from previous child abuse. It doesn't really offend me

I think it's hot when a religious girl was sheltered as a child and then proceeda to tell me how she learned a lot of life lessons the hard way. Hmm I think I have a thing for ex-religious chicks.

>>17842647
No its completely hot.

- subby girl