How do I become girlfriend-able? I learn as much as I can about

>>17841630

Average looks are not good enough.

>>17841630
I posted this on /soc/ and it made a great thread. I'll repost it for you:

WHAT DO YOU BRING TO A RELATIONSHIP?

There are a ton of threads about what you want in a relationship. Let's give it a twist: what can you offer to others? Why should people date you?
>ASL
>5 things you can offer to a potential couple
>Why people should date you?

(forget the ASL, but do give me an answer to the rest)

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>>17841630
im a dude, and for a while when i entered college i tought i had the same problem, i really tried my best to fit in i lost a lot of weight changed my clothes, and i learned as much as i could about things normal people talk about

But that didn't work at all, i realized that everything felt fake, luckily i found an old friends that was always good to me in highschool,she is into all the stuff im into, and whenever i see her i know that i can just be myself and talk with her for hours

it might be hard and i hate to say it but just be yourself and if people don't like you that way, then find other people, there's hgotta be something that can appreciate you

but well, if you want to try with normies, just remember looks are eveything, it doesn't matter if your personality is shit or if you are foring, for a normie if you look good you will be gf material

i don't know maybe post a picture so we can see how you look

>>17841630
In my experience, the best way to build enduring feeling of affection is by building the person up. You should try to find someone who doesn't have it all together/is on the expressway to getting it all together. To this end, you should find someone who is not motivated so that you can be their motivation. He will become more than he ever would have been without you, and the feelings that come from this will be genuine and enduring.

Look for a guy who isn't that well groomed when you go out. Chances are, he's not motivated.

>>17841630
pretty easy to be original. you can try a different haircut, shop from a unique clothes store. idk about hobbies wise, but for personality i think it would be different if you were naturally polite because theres a lot of douchebags today

>>17841630
What does "girlfriend-able" mean?

>>17841655
>WHAT DO YOU BRING TO A RELATIONSHIP?
A bunch of examples?

>>17841675
The whole thread: >>>/soc/24662632

When a girl shows interest in my I respond. Just show a little interest in the guy you like. He will respond and ask you out.